opinion cheating! (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-26 17:11 ID:4eNm1/xO

Hi all,

So a friend of mine got herself a bf.
butt.. he's in the army so she's only able to see him in the weekend.

Now she told me she cheated on him since she felt zo lonely.
At first I was shocked of her saying that but once I cleared my mind and thought about it, I was able to understand.

Once feeling lonely you just want to get rid of the feeling.

what do you think about it ppl?

2 Name: Otakun : 2009-05-26 17:54 ID:c43I02x4

Cheating is a no no in all ways unless the couple has agreed on an open relationship. I find more beauty in a woman waiting for the man to return to her like in Homer's Odyssey, but if she really can't she should end it right there. Spare the guy of finding out that she's cheating

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-26 18:23 ID:4eNm1/xO

hmm I agree it's more romantic if she waits for him to return,

was wanting to try and discuss more about cheating itself and not particular this situation.

could you not understand why she did it and how she feels?

4 Name: 43 : 2009-05-26 20:37 ID:zqqwqjhp

>>2

This, except for the odyssey and the beauty of waiting women.

Would she be ok if he is cheating on her over there just because he feel lonely?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-26 21:39 ID:7Wjy1TTc

>he's in the army so she's only able to see him in the weekend.

Seriously? Not seeing him during the week is enough to make her so desperate? Can't imagine how it will be when he's deployed somewhere...

I think your friend is way too clingy, and that she needs to mature a bit. Otherwise she should go out with someone who is stuck at home.

As for the cheating, I would consider it as a serious symptom that something needs to change in their relationship, otherwise it won't survive for long. I'm actually quite pessimistic about their situation

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-27 16:29 ID:4eNm1/xO

>>4

suppose not. even though sometimes people just need a hug I think.

7 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-05-27 18:26 ID:tqqsuHK0

Simple: Love wasn't strong enough for them, to each other.

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