Hay romance. I have come to you because I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m pretty much an average 21 year old guy. I have pretty average looks. I’m a bit of an introvert, I like to stay at home on the computer, but I still have a small group of friends who I hang out with once a week. I don’t have any real talents. I’m ok at a lot of things and have been over seas a bit in my life. Most of the things I find interesting are nerdy, everyday things just seem boring. I really hate to say this because of the connotations it seems to have developed, but I’m really just a nice guy. By “nice guy” I don’t mean one of those people who sit around bemoaning the fact that a girlfriend doesn’t fall into their lap, and who think that their single status is the byproduct of lying girls who say they want nice guys but then only go for jerks. I’m just a normal guy who was raised to be polite to women, hold doors and speak politely, like that. I also realize that a big part of me being single has to do with my own introverted nature.

However my problems do not come from some nice guy syndrome. I have actually been working and succeeding on improving myself. I have started to care more about my appearance and am even trying to expand my social life and be more comfortable with girls. My problem is that I don’t know where or how to meet girls. All of the girls I run into in college seem to be taken already. And I have no idea where to go to meet girls outside of school. I live in the suburbs so its not like there are a lot of places to go around here either.

I’m really starting to get desperate. I’ve been telling myself “this will be the year it all terns around” for the past six years. All of my friends are either in relationships or are happily single and not interested in looking for anyone. I’m just tired of being alone I want someone to smile with and have fun with. Please help me romance.