I'm an intelligent girl and so are my friends. I'm not speaking for myself, but intelligent girls like me. We do the same things you do; stay home, play on the computer, do research on interesting topics for fun, likes nerdy offbeat things...we don't really go to parties, we are pretty straight edge..sometime, if not most.
I would say anime conventions or art galleries, the manga section of Barns & Noble, China Town...those are places me and friends go to, but we are very few...its hard for me to find friends since these places I frequent for fun attract older people..or younger, or ppl I don't really clique with. : / ...but you won't really find us at clubs or parties dancing, getting sloshed, and carrying on. After all we are pretty introverted ourselves. I for one am extremely shy and is very hard to find guys that I can clique with, introverted offbeat (nerdy cool but not crazy) guys.
...where do guys like you hang out? :/