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It's a combination of the two really. I've got an over-inflated ego and I'm damn proud of it, but I've also never had a girlfriend and am incredibly lonely.

With all chicks, I always just imagine what it would be like to be doing all sorts of stuff together: driving through the city at night to look at the lights while listening to awesome music, telling funny stories and seeing her face light up, just hanging out and watching a movie together, whatever. With this girl it just feels "right" when I imagine it, even more so than the the shy girl and the soccer girl. If anything, my experience talking to them really really helped. They were the first two girls I chose to talk to in my entire life.

I'm not even exaggerating. I was incredibly shy growing up, I couldn't even talk to girls without blushing until middle school. Even then, I never really talked to a girl unless one talked to me. Luckily I have been granted with narcissism, the ultimate tool for confidence. I have learned the ways of women from my friends and how they handle their girlfriends, and learned how chicks laugh will find the dumbest jokes funny from my brother and his gf in particular.

More than anything, in high school everyone always thought of me as that "shy/smart/cool" kid, and that kind of stuck with me so I didn't try to be anyone else. Now that I'm in college, nobody knows me so I can act however the fuck I want, I love it.