20/10/09
I like this girl in my school who is older than me by one year she a really nice girl she is very artist and she is really cute but i find it hard to talk to her because we are in different year group and we never have a chance talk with each each other and beside i never ask a girl out before. i am scare that i may frighten her. So can someone gives me some advises i will appreciate it very much thank you
what do you mean, by "she is very artist"? And how did you learn about that info? Where have you met her so far?
What you can do depends on what you know about her. So try to learn as much about her as possible (hence the interest of knowing what you mean by artist).
Really, if the only thing you know about her is that she clothes well, then talk about that with her (her style, where does she buy things, etc).
first of all thank you very for suggests. i
first of all thank you very for suggests. i don't really know her that well because she is a grade higher than i am and we don't have chances to speak often. i only see her in break time but then i still don't have a change to speak to her because she is always res surrounded by her friends and like i said i never ask a girl out before so i won't know what to say( i am clueless about girls) they make think i am weird or something. i only know she is great artist because i saw her picture around school
>i only know she is great artist because i saw her picture around school
Do you mean she paints? If so then talk to her about her paintings and painting in general.
If not, then what do you mean? Would it kill you to develop a bit further?
If you've never really talked to her, how do you know you love her? It's just a crush. Unless any real development, such as talking, is made, it will only stay at the level of crush. You've got to develop your feelings, to see if you do love her or if it was just a physical attraction; if meeting in school is so impossible, try outside of school. Or, just wait for a chance to arise when you two can converse. It's up to you if you want to be passive or agressive; just know that it's not a big deal if this doesn't work out. Maybe you should just give up and find a girl you can actually speak to.
Thank you to 5 and 6 for advise.first i will develop it further. the girl let call her ViV2, she really like to draw she will draw every day i never see her without her sketch book she draw and paint everything around her but she loves to draw manga characters the most. OK i follow your advises since i can not speak to her in school i ask 4 her yahoo yesterday so we can chat. i was so happy at first when she add me so we can talk to each other but she is never online or it she being invisible to me. i ask her many time the reason but she won't say. is she playing hard to get oh i am so depress. i want to confess my feeling to her but am scare that she may reject me and don't want to say it in front of people. my life is so hopeless s and i know that i should properly find other girl but not after she help me from getting expel from school i fall in love with her kindness. maybe we should only be friends; i can't even do that right what can i do in life?
>i ask 4 her yahoo yesterday so we can chat. i was so happy at first when she add me so we can talk to each other but she is never online or it she being invisible to me.
You seem to be pretty impatient... It's remarkable that she agreed so fast to chat with you, but if you already start going paranoid 24 hours after having her contact, things will go sour for sure. Be more patient. If after a few days you never see her online, then just ask her what are her habits on that topic, and adjust accordingly.
>i ask her many time the reason but she won't say. is she playing hard to get oh i am so depress.
You already asked her many times after 24 hours? Is this for real? Do you realize that what you are doing is very irritating to her? Please take some moments to cool down and reflect on your behavior. You seem to be doing everything needed to make her hate you real fast.
>my life is so hopeless s and i know that i should properly find other girl but not after she help me from getting expel from school i fall in love with her kindness.
This is so confusing: how come she helped you from getting expelled from school without you having talked to her? Your story is full of inconsistencies, from an external point of you it looks like you are fabricating a good chunk of it. So if you really want to find some productive help here please take the time to properly explain your story. When did you meet, how come she helped you, since when have you been talking to each other, etc. Explain things as they happened, don't obscure or beautify them, that's the best way to get people to lose interest in you and your story.
Relax man you are obsessing over a girl. Patience is key. Sounds like you are high school so you can have the upper hand over most other guys there. If you remain calm and cool and don't freak out because her not being on yahoo you can easily win her over. But first thing is first, you need to relax.
OP,
If your life is anything like mine, you'll fail each and every time you try anything with a girl.
ok i will explain it more deeply two years ago i was in year six back then my school didn't have enough teachers so the year six and seven learn in the same class that when i first met the girl and we do talk but only about hw and i didn't know much about her so i did not ask her much because she was a year older. it will be weird to talk with an older girl and back then i had no interest in her ok. the only i know about her was her name and that she love to draw. near the end i got in trouble with hw and i nearly go expel if i did do my next hw so this girl lets me copy her work for 2 weeks. i thank her and i have a crush on her since but she didn't seem interested so i did not say anything. in the year the school expand and we got separated and haven't talk since so i think ishould try to be friends with her and have a fresh start
op here. my life is worst than yours.
she was online last night and we talk so hat the matter. i didn't want to tell her about my felling yet so i said i just want to talk to you. after a few minutes of talking about school(i want to change the subject) so i ask her if she in a relationship with anyone else and she said yes. my hearth skip a beat and trying to stay calm to talk to her....