You know, I keep reading your posts, trying to get a distinct understanding as to why anyone would make such blunt statements towards someone with some sort of need. Initially, it seems irritating and unnecessary, which is perhaps why I felt the need to berate you. But you know...I don't think that is really the case.
You seem like you've lived for a little while, and you've been though some things, good and bad. You don't seem like a know-it-all, or a kid who talks out of his ass. Perhaps being blunt is a way to make me see reality for what it is, and there are certain things that you just won't get even with the best of intentions.
I suppose i'm a person who isn't really aiming to win, or needs to experience instant gratification. Perhaps if I were more cut and dry like you are I would get what I want more often. But honestly, that just doesn't seem satisfying. I believe that love can't be readily defined by anything basic. Some people's ideas of love seem crazy compared to others. But all their ideas are unified by one aspect: that love is something distinct and strong. Perhaps I shouldn't use such a powerful word like that right now. I'm still trying to understand my own feelings.
I suppose the journey is more fun than the destination. If she never cares for me i'm okay with that. It's just fun to go through life and have experiences. Since life is so short, I want to just sit back and enjoy it, so that when I die, I can die with a big grin on my face.
Trust me, you make sense when it comes to establishing relationships. But there is more to life than just getting the girl. I suppose you helped me understand that too.