Huh. You opened up. Screw my last post then.
Lol this made me facepalm. You still seem too overly protective of yourself. No one has a completely happy life. Look at Tiger Woods.
I guess i'm not intentionally trying to lecture you. In most situations I appreciate pure honesty because it opens up my perspective. Nothing more fun than finding people who think differently from you eh.
What bothers me the most is not the honesty, but the way it comes out. It's not morally subjective, but more or less unconsciously hurtful. Like underneath your posts lies some sort of bleeding pain. I agree, kindness without any sort of reasoning is absurd. But there is such a thing as ill placed honesty. We can't all be honest about everything, because we aren't perfect enough to understand it fully.
Sometimes I feel that we make unreasonable assumptions from what we see from society. We see people who seem to be well adapted and perfect, so we think that other people who can't be that way have problems. We forget to realize that we don't see everything from everyone. No one is completely adjusted. And no one should be expected to be that way either.
Sorry. I've been kind of an ass to you even though you still are trying to help in your own way. I'm trying really hard to understand your posts though. If I can't look outside of myself and see the point of view of others, then what am I worth as a person?