would you change or refrain from making any changes to your appearance if it would please your partner more? or do you think how you look is totally an individual thing and if your partner doesn't like it he/she isn't worth dating anyway.
i'm talking about more 'basic' changes like haircuts or dressing; not stuff like plastic surgery.
Well, if my partner said I look better with a certain hairstyle, and I didn't mind that hairstyle, then sure I'd change to it. But if my partner says I should change it to something I honestly do not like, then I won't change to it. I think it's fine if my suggests something he/she likes, but forcing me into conforming simply to please him/her is a no-go.
If the change is something that will benifit you, then yes. Like, if my partner wanted me to lose weight, of course I would start working out more. Because not only will it make me more physically appealing to them, but i'll feel better about myself too.
I can honestly say Ive never been in this type of situation. Im a boxer, kickboxer, and do Tae Kwon Do, plus weightlift and run all the time so I can honestly say Ive never been told to have a "sexier" body. I figure that if I was told to get bigger or more ripped I would consider it, but I really cant say.
changing my appearance would be great if it'll do good for me... if she/he asks you to change your style,feel free to ask her the reason why then if it is suitable for you then go ahead but if you feel like its not, be reasonable enough to refuse... let her.him bear in mind that "if you truly love me then love for who and what i am!"
no offense, a pretty dumb question
if the person like ur character, looks does not matter
if the person like ur apeearance, why change?
does not like appearance and character, what else?
anyone who -isnt- willing to make minor concessions towards their partner in regards to their appearance is in for a disappointing romantic life. if you arent willing to let your partner dress you up once in a while, pull the stick out of your ass.