a chance at love? (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-17 08:00 ID:0jS+SUzd

I'm at a lost here....really...just sad. But I would like to know your opinion. Do you guys think I have a chance at love. Im 5.5, 170lb 27yo guy. lives alone. works at a dead end job. High school educated only. I'm below average looking for a filipino guy. I'm very shy and keeps to himself most of the time. I cry at dramas but like them still and when I'm frustrated. clearly I don't have a chance at love or even get close to something like that. right........

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-18 06:30 ID:61kpKVal

Of course you have a chance at love; everyone does. And it's not as though you're a geezer or anything :P You're still relatively young. However, you'll need to be happy with yourself first before you start looking for a relationship. You can't look to others to fill a void in your life; you'll only end up disappointed if you do that. (believe me, I know first hand :<)

Just try and put yourself out there more, work on your shortcomings and do your best to find happiness in your single life first. Are there any hobbies you want to try out or things you want to learn about? Do them! When you gain confidence in yourself and are happy with your life and who you are, others will be able to sense it and you'll become more attractive, in terms of gaining both friends and romantic interests. Don't take rejection too hard either; it happens to everyone at some point no matter how cool you are :P Hope this helped you in some way.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-19 05:16 ID:4BnVOQwP

That's a foolish question to ask online. No one here has ever met you, and all you're giving us is your own description of yourself. Go ask a friend.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-19 16:41 ID:uojrHIF0

I agree with >>2.

confidence is everything if you ever want to gain romance.
All that wondering why you can;t get anyone while you're better than person B makes it worse. I'ts all about feeling good about yourself and showing it to whoever you like.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-20 13:28 ID:nNgCGcI7

Well, put some effort into it then. Get your fat ass on a treadmill is a start.

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