How you met your girlfriend/boyfriend (3)

1 Name: HaloUTD08 : 2011-07-25 21:04 ID:/vKM8TRN

Ok...it is now OPEN

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-07-26 21:56 ID:YgBXK2dQ

  1. internet
  2. mall
  3. former job
  4. internet
  5. friend of some friends

3 Name: HaloUTD08 : 2011-08-17 21:33 ID:X4WTmMFX

sorry...I should of started a more descriptive sentence for this thread instead.

My girlfriend actually transferred to my high school our junior year. She lived (and still does) a town away and takes a cross-town bus to get to school everyday. She was very private, but very cute in my eyes. For a year though, I tried to even talk to her around school...but she kept avoiding me in class and everywhere else. Before our junior year ended, we were supposed to work on a school project together with two other people...and she ended up giving me her cell number. I didn't talk to her over the phone personally for the next two months cause I was too nervous. Around the week before Independence Day (USA), I meant to call this blond girl I had an eye for after calling other girls that day...but didn't end up calling her. Instead, I hit the next entry below the blond without looking...and it was the girl I really liked. Although I apologized calling her the wrong name, she didn't mind and we started a conversation. That conversation ended up being a six hour conversation (which nearly ate up my cell phone battery). After that, at least once or twice a week we would talk for so long over the phone. It wasn't until senior year started that we started hanging out for real...going to Homecoming, picnics, and stuff.

It wasn't until September that my life changed. Another girl that I kinda liked was having suicidal thoughts at the time because her then-ex broke up with her. She wanted me to come over to console her, but my family initially tried to stop me from going. It wasn't until I called my future gf and asked her what to do. She said the same thing my family mentioned to me: You'll be used, maybe become her bf, and will find out soon enough that she's not the one for you. To this day, I'm glad I didn't go over to that girl's house.

Around November, my future gf and I had a huge argument about wanting to hang out during lunch, and we just abruptly seperated for the day. We both felt so sad and upset that we ended up writing to each other. She called me a few hours later, and I told her how sorry I felt for being a jerk for her and didn't want to stop being her friend. In return, she told me she loved me for so long...and in an instant...I was fixated on that statement.

To this day, we are still going out together after almost seven years. We had a lot of problems in the past (we just ran across one just this week)...but I have faith in rejuvinating that spark. I'm not worried about going out with any other girl or how a single life may be...I just want to still be with my sweetheart.

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