Loss of friends....? (23)

1 Name: School Boy : 2006-08-17 04:19 ID:IWhstUGJ

I think I'm starting to lose my friends, close ones too. We use to hang around lot, at the movies, malls and other places, we laugh at everything, nothing and stupid things, it continued liked that until somewhere in the middle of summer everything just stopped, for me that is, we all have myspaces just for fun and everyday I go to their's, looking at new pictures of things they're doing without me, they don't call me when they're going places but I do when I invite them, I don't know what I've done..I dunno what to do...Help?

2 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-17 04:27 ID:S/6TXnol

Sometimes friends just grow apart after a while. This is probably what's happening, unless you have a lousy personality.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-17 04:33 ID:M+zefpgp

Just call them to hang out at your place or do stuff with you. It isn't that hard

4 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-17 06:03 ID:Heaven

5 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-17 07:04 ID:AbJ2zPDC

Is 4-ch reading my mind or something? Let's just say that I'm in the exact same situation as >>1, somebody on the film and TV, Internet addicts, game, net culture and the anime and manga boards.

What the hell is this? 4-ch, can you read my mind? Can you make me remember that girl's telephone number I forgot 5 years ago?

6 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-17 09:28 ID:vnnOQ9FF

Friends sometimes find different things to do, that they don't think you'd enjoy. so they don't invite you, because they think they know you enough to know that you won't enjoy it? shrug

7 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-17 13:31 ID:Heaven

>>5
You are thinking of the number 367.

8 Name: School Boy : 2006-08-17 17:12 ID:IWhstUGJ

Well, high school is just right around the bend, I could start all over, make some new friends I geuss, I just get this feeling they don't want me anymore, I think I might make new friends and rub it in their faces, better friends, I dunno.

9 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-18 17:47 ID:IWhstUGJ

Maybe they just don't like you, did you do anything to make them that way?

10 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-18 20:33 ID:7sq1B9Ez

>>5

I can't remember the entire number, but I can assure you that it began with 900.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-18 22:58 ID:ujSnG1ow

Internet destroys friendships.

12 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-19 00:27 ID:2Am9uCSe

INTERNET RUINS LIVES.

13 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-19 19:59 ID:Heaven

>>8

( ゚Д゚) YOU AREN'T EVEN IN HIGH SCHOOL???

14 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-19 20:00 ID:M+zefpgp

oops didn't mean to use sage! (´∀`)

15 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-19 21:20 ID:Heaven

lol

16 Name: Anonymous : 2006-08-19 21:21 ID:YGhVryIA

Hard to suggest a course of action without really knowing anything about you.

17 Name: random : 2006-08-19 22:55 ID:DbRdLeA6

>>16
i agree with you.

>>1
keep this in mind:
"it's better to be lonely that be with inferior people"
if it doesnt apply to you, just ignore it

18 Name: Anonymous : 2006-10-04 12:00 ID:7AXiEXO6

Well fuck, I had the same problem. I got rid of all traces of myspace and instant messaging and learned the concept of using a phone. My life has been much better since. And go out and meet people. Rather a friend to call than one to leave a comment on your myspace.

Also don't dwell too much on past friendships. If it's not working out, it's not working out. Sometime people grow apart, it's just that simple. Go meet some new people. That should especially be easy if you're in school. If you're not, there are other places, you just gotta know where to look.

19 Name: Anonymous : 2006-10-04 14:34 ID:bg7b8edJ

All the more reason to think that Myspace is really evil and Tom is really the devil (or an ugly sub-demon). Now instead of making friends the old fashioned way, Myspace finds you "E-Friends" -who are, more often than not, really unpleasant people in real life who's only interested in your "friendship" so they can make their e-penises a little bigger. Heck, in my day friendships are forged with time and experiences.

20 Name: Anonymous : 2006-10-05 10:52 ID:RYyQIuI8

i think you should talk with your friend tell them how you feel and hopefully they will understand you and if they dont then there is no point in trying to trust them or be freind with them if they arent worth your trust then go find some new friends, friends that u can actually trust,friends that u can tell secret to and they will keep friends that will trust and talk to you about their problem.

21 Name: Anonymous : 2006-10-11 21:44 ID:Heaven

>>20

Try some punctuation.... that is one HUGE sentence. If you don't want to punctuate you could at least hit enter (or return) at the end of each thought so that it is at least separated from the previous thought.

22 Name: Anonymous : 2006-11-03 21:58 ID:LO0Rrtbv

>>21

were a couple of commas. heh.

23 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-09 14:39 ID:jJWjdNAM

I have moved alot, and from my experience a good rotation time is 3 years, 6 years at most.

It's normal that you grow out of your friends, and you should not feel like there is something wrong with you.

Actually from moving alot, I learnt the valuable lesson that nothing lasts forever. When everything starts feeling like an endless rotation, you should probably change friends ( not saying that sticking with your old friends would be a problem in itself )

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