Since I'm unable to find friends or a lover to be with, I was wondering what I could do with my free time.
This would function as a mean to distance myself from this damned computer, and to try not to constantly think of the lack of friends/family/love in my life.
I work 8 hour shifts, so I often have the whole afternoon free when I finish at 14.00 or when I start at 22.00... but I don't know what to do.
It must be something which keeps me busy AND around people, because I've become increasingly unable to feel good in the usual loneliness of my apartment.
I was even thinking about a second job.. but I'd prefer something more relaxed.. I don't know where to start and where to look-.-
play an MMO
start a hobby
sit in the park or whatever and read a book
look at your local craigslist for free events
Go to the library and read. Go to the zoo or museum.
take up an instrument, something like keyboard or guitar would be a good one. then after a bit of learning the basics try to meet up with other people to play. or even start busking.
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also, it gives you a creative output for your emotions. if youre feeling lonely you can write a song about it. you dont even have to play it for anyone, but just writing it is a help.
play WoW
not sure if it's the healthiest thing in your situation but it certainly will eat up your time. I would definately look into joining a club or something. or better yet, pretend (or not) that you have a problem with public speaking and join "toastmasters". great way of meeting people.
no do not play wow, it wont eat your time, it will eat your life.
go do something with your hands, you know... build stuff, make something. I personally like 3D modeling and drawings, and god bless bittorent for having all the needed material for me to start.
Just take up something you enjoy and go with it, it will give you a sense of accomplishment.