Apparently I've developed a lifestyle, where I'm white but I find myself identifying with Asian males.

My online activity consists of reading and posting info on the Asian-American experience-- criticizing advertisements on TV that are sterotypical (Asians portrayed as martial artists all the time, Asian males not having any major roles in film, etc).

I want to live in Singapore, amid its multi-lingual culture groups. I love Singlish, and how there are so many cultures (Indian, Malaysian/Muslim, Chinese) living so close without assimilating per se.

But, any advice on how to be self-confident, even though I seem to be longing after a culture that isn't mine?