> And when the only thing you're willing to fight for is something you'll never have and all the rest became pointless?

Keep fighting, settle for less, move on or be happy with what you have.

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Then the you obsess for years over him/her, putting up posters with his/her picture, wasting air time on America's Most Wanted (or whatever), and starting foundations in their name.
It's even worse if you can't move on with their lives.