Mute/Loss of friend(s) (28)

12 Name: Anonymous : 2008-03-10 11:02 ID:dXmgibOy

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Intervals can be long depending on if the person on MSN is talking to multiple people, busy with other things etc. I would only worry if the person stopped talking to you completely, its easy just to block someone you don't want to talk to especially if you don't know them in real life, obviously if they haven't blocked you they do want to talk to you even if it just isn't right now.

Though perhaps this girl is a lost cause, you should really be looking at girls you can meet up with in real life even if it is just as friends until you improve your confidence. You sound like a nice guy though, I think a lot of girls would be interested in someone like you, its just the confidence issue holding you back.

It sounds like you are on your way to improving your communicating skills by taking the Japanese course but you do need to practice everyday communication. Unless you are planning on going to japan soon, it won't massively affect your day-to-day life, since the practice is limited to classroom time, when ideally you should be able to practice communication whenever possible.

I will suggest talking with a counselor, not because I think you need treatment or something like that, but because your appointments are all about the talking, and its with someone that you can trust. You can get a few problems with your life in order and practice communicating at the same time.

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