>>11 here

>>some girls are crazy enough to see if they still have power over you and by you running from her like that it showed that she still does have powre over you

That's exactly what my ex was doing. She wanted to have her cake and eat it too by having power over me.

I understand your feelings though; part of me still has feelings for what the person I thought my ex was, not who she truly is. But do what >>15 said, I did the same and it was very cathartic for me.