>>28 when you say that you are transgendered, does it mean that you have taken/are taking some steps to modify your gender? (medication, operations, clothing, makeup, etc).

Also I don't understand when you say you're andro. Do you alternatively want to be a man and a woman, or none? I think many people do not particularly care about the gender they are born with, without this being a problem in their lives. I don't think this is what you are talking about...