>>73
I think you and I might actually be very similar. There are arrogant assholes out there that are after a one night stand and not interested in a relationship of substance, nor are they interested in women with substance. I avoid these types of men, and I see them as not worth any sort of effort approaching.

Perhaps similarly you dislike women that want to feel in control by making men do everything for her like making the man approach her, buy her drinks, cover the bill, etc.

And these two types of people play games with each other and you want to have the game end, and have these women be straightforward instead of manipulative.

But I find that the game is an extension of their lives, an extension of their personality. Everyone with these deficient characteristics will play the game as though the game was the meaning of life.

This is from "don't hate the player, hate the game"
Don't hate, cause my game's much, tighter than yours
My girls, finer than yours
My jewels shine, brighter than yours
You look me dead in my face
then you act like you don't see me
You wanna be me, you hate my motherfuckin' guts
Lickin' nuts - what's the deal?
It's a level playin' field, my games' against yours, hustlin' wars
Roll the dice, risk your motherfuckin' life
Bank rolls and low hoes, anything goes...
I don't know why a player wanna hate T
I didn't choose the game, the game chose me"

The players are people that see all life as a game and do everything to keep image. In a way I pity the player. But there is the fact that dating and sex is a game too.

The way I approach "the game" is I am not looking for the player, but the person that doesn't see life as a game. I look for a potential partner that will be an equal to me, and treat me as an equal and will stick with me. But am I going to go up to him and ask him to marry me? Nope, I have to play the game and see if there is interest, determine if there is chemistry, go out on dates and see if there is a connection. One has to start with flirting and build up to conversation, and to kissing and to a relationship.

The point I am making is you should not hate the game but hate the player. You hate both. But if you are ever going to find a good relationship you need to find a girl that strikes your interest and doesn't want to play the game for the sake of playing the game but plays for keeps. And then you would have to play the game, you will need to ask her out, talk to her, flatter her and see if she is worth your effort. Everyone that wants a partner has to make an effort, and has to play the game. We need a process that determines whether a potential mate is right for us, or if they are not. That is the purpose of the game, and the game is over once you find the right person.

So stop hating the game and avoid the girls that play for the sake of playing. If you are going to hate the game then give up on finding the girl.