Lonely (25)

1 Name: Loner : 2008-12-31 06:43 ID:4necJjpB

Well for quite a while now, I have been very lonely. I mean I have friends and family but I still feel so lonely. I was just wondering if anyone else here feels the same way. And also what can I do to fix this.

2 Name: Anonymous : 2008-12-31 11:37 ID:yajBPRtR

I sometimes feel like that when I'm sitting alone on my room (dormitory-like-thingy).

What you can do to fix it is quite easy, keep yourself busy.
Invite friends over for dinner, or drag them along to see a movie, go places where you meet people.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2008-12-31 17:33 ID:NMUbkdB9

that's true... just find some hobby, if you already have one, find more... usually, this feeling of loneliness comes when you have time to think about things, if you keep your mind busy, it won't be that bad... or also watching films/anime/books/whatever is good cause you concentrate on the story and not on your own thoughts

4 Name: Anonymous : 2008-12-31 18:42 ID:34Gc4o1l


5 Name: Anonymous : 2008-12-31 19:13 ID:yajBPRtR

yup yup true.
just don't go watching movies that are too deep or anything, it might backfire xD

6 Name: Anonymous : 2008-12-31 22:16 ID:NMUbkdB9

well, even backfiring isn't too bad when it will move you forward in your thinking

7 Name: Loner : 2009-01-01 08:04 ID:4necJjpB

Thanks guys. Just reading this helps me out.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-01 13:42 ID:iY3SG0HM

play through every Megaman game.
That'll keep you busy.

9 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-01 15:17 ID:g1deHNcR

hugs don't be lonely, anon is here for you

10 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-02 23:27 ID:RgKiO+Vs

everyone feels that way sometime. It's just different from person to person. This phase you long for a partner. I suggest going out and finding a date to hang out with.
If all else fail, there's always internet dating. Despite its ill-reputation it actually works. Try it.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-04 00:29 ID:8tm0zk47

Well... try thinking about why you feel lonely first...

12 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-04 05:46 ID:Jsax1df1

i feel lonely sometimes :(
but i have hope that some hugs will take the feeling away :3

13 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-04 06:14 ID:swwJnibd

Yeah, find something to occupy yourself with. You're probably lonely and dumpy-feeling because you're bored.

Be proactive about enjoying yourself and find something to preoccupy yourself with.

14 Name: Kei90 : 2009-01-04 08:37 ID:LAyyykn/

Hmm... sometime, I feel like you too, Loner-san. Althought, there are many people near me, I'm feeling like alone.

I've seen it because I'm an introvert man (uhh.. still 18, maybe it's a boy? :P) So, I began to make friends, and many friends, being nice, helping others, etc..

I know I'm jealous to one of my friend, he's so popular and anyone know him in my highschool (really). Seeing that makes me jealous and envy. I'm not hate him, just this emotion...

So, now I've still make friends, ahh I mean, Best friend, and never giving up hopes that I can be like him, have many friends. Yeah, Loner-san, maybe you need friend that can share your life, from happiness and sadness :)

15 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-04 10:24 ID:iI6FiYCQ

well, don't be jealous, he is a learning opportunity for you. Even if you will never become like him, you can still learn one or two things from him.

16 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-04 21:31 ID:g1deHNcR

>>14 what >>15 said
and as well, I would rather keep very few close friends than way too many acquaintances.
Feeling lonely in my case means I'm in for the need of hugs and luw :)

17 Name: Panapoly : 2009-01-04 21:58 ID:rXUsS0m7

Me being lonely makes hugs and being with friends even more special. Find something to fill up that loneliness you feel.
Be social, find something you really like doing, stop thinking about being lonely etc.

But I totally get what you mean. I feel lonely a lot too, even if I have awesome people around me and stuff.

18 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-04 23:13 ID:YZzv8UxZ

I am lonely too

19 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-05 02:09 ID:oMhHq3mM

i feel lonely around people but i'm def not lonely when i'm alone, i actually love it.

20 Name: Hoatzin!OX0sbh9AV. : 2009-01-06 01:34 ID:1LYPrt0b

i'm kinda like >>2
when i'm alone with nothing to do i start feeling sad and lonely because i evaluate my place in the grand scheme of things and look at my past mistakes and heartaches. as long as you have something to do, you can avoid this kind of sulking. although i do occasionally benefit from this.

21 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-06 06:44 ID:g1deHNcR

>>20 Ive noticed i become slightly depressed/lonely in the evenings, but im all fine again in the mornings. The sleep sure changes lots!

22 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-06 14:08 ID:twUyH/tP

I usually feel lonely because there are so little people like me on earth. Well, so little that I can reach anyway.

23 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-06 19:00 ID:g1deHNcR

insert hugs here

24 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-06 22:05 ID:IP349LOe


You're friends with a very popular person, at least you're not all off in a corner, forlorn and friendless. Don't get stuck on whether it's half empty or half full, there's a glass, and it's got water in it. Drink it.

25 Name: Anonymous : 2009-01-07 11:01 ID:UBCnxve1

yeah sometimes I feel lonely although there are so many people always encourage me. Sometimes I regret that I can not become the one I expected and I always wish I could go back to the past and change everything. But it only makes me more depressed

After I talked to some person and old friend, everything became clear. I'm really touched that they take my burden just like it was theirs. And now I know, people are always there for you


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