Relationship-related turmoil. Help. (3)

1 Name: Femanon : 2012-04-01 10:36 ID:CUotHgo0

I don't know who to tell this to, or how do I even phrase it.
I have never been in a relationship. I will turn 21 this year.
(A little background information- The only thing I ever actually had, was with a friend's friend. I fell for him though I just intended to explore things. But that chapter's over and done with)

Now, there is a guy who cares about me, and I care about him too. But he REALLY cares about me.
We have everything scarily in common, right from our musical preferences, sexual fantasies to tastes in interiors.
But I just don't feel like I'm into him?
Should I still give him a chance even if I don't feel a 'like-like' feeling or tingles?
I don't know if it's a friendzone or what, but I get shit scared if anything related to even going out comes up.
My fingers get cold as if I'm awaiting an execution and my heart feels like it stops, and yet races like it wants to run away in some blinding rain. It's like a deafening sound of a thousand beating wings.

2 Name: kelp : 2012-04-23 08:01 ID:JTVEbQuC

Sometimes, relationships blossom from things like this. You could give him a chance and date him, though if it doesn't work because you don't like him in that way, or something like that, it may become awkward and you may not be able to maintain a friendship with him (assuming you two are close friends?) It might just be that you haven't had lots of experience with relationships (although you may from your one relationship?) that you are feeling this way towards him, and towards the idea of "going out" with him.

3 Name: exish : 2012-05-07 02:08 ID:T5KyDWe6

your hope is infinte

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