>>417 I'm going to tell you this gently. While we know what you were trying to do, and it was a noble effort, it was phrased less than perfectly. No one ever likes to hear this, but what you've done is commonly known as "fail." This may seem harsh, but "failing" is one of the ways we grow. People can be pretty nasty about this sort of thing, but I'm sure at heart you are a pretty nice, and fundamentally decent individual. It is with this thought that I'd like to gently suggest that you undertake a course of "lurking more" and for a greater percentage of time than you have up to this point, and also, for a longer period.