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First of all, none of this "girls like..." generalization for me, thanks. i've been a girl long enough (20 years lawl) to know that not all women are the same, in romantic habits or any other type of traits.

Secondly, some girls like more polite men, and others like more brash men. What i personally value most - and what most of my friends seem to value most - is honesty and good intentions. Looking for a sex-driven relationship? Fine. i want to know that, so that i can decide if that's what i'm going for, and i want safe sex, and i want you to care about how much i'm enjoying it as much you care about how much you're enjoying it. Want a romantic relationship with flowers? That's fine too! i want to establish strong, healthy lines of communication along with the bed covered with rose petals.

Of course, i'm in San Francisco, and thus am immersed in a rather distinct culture regarding romance/lurve/sex. Unless you're in a place like SF or NY, YMMV.