Attraction to jerks like moths to a flame? why? I know you aren't stupid - you know exactly how things will work out, yet you persist. please explain.
>>98 lol, that's what you think. You guys are just paranoid and think everyone who says they're a girl are really guys pretending to be. GIrls can use computers too you know.
>GIrls can use computers too you know.
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>>63
First of all, none of this "girls like..." generalization for me, thanks. i've been a girl long enough (20 years lawl) to know that not all women are the same, in romantic habits or any other type of traits.
Secondly, some girls like more polite men, and others like more brash men. What i personally value most - and what most of my friends seem to value most - is honesty and good intentions. Looking for a sex-driven relationship? Fine. i want to know that, so that i can decide if that's what i'm going for, and i want safe sex, and i want you to care about how much i'm enjoying it as much you care about how much you're enjoying it. Want a romantic relationship with flowers? That's fine too! i want to establish strong, healthy lines of communication along with the bed covered with rose petals.
Of course, i'm in San Francisco, and thus am immersed in a rather distinct culture regarding romance/lurve/sex. Unless you're in a place like SF or NY, YMMV.
>>103
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If I had lived at your area, I so would have tried to ask you out.
If I wouldn't be with my S.O., that is.
Just, wow.
<3
You give me hope regarding mankind.
Thank you!
*takes a bite of >>107 *
..Yep yep, troll. ::pours some bbq sauce on him and takes another bite:: Still bad, but at least it tastes slightly better now.
well, the way I see it, if guys complain about girls going for "jerks" as they see them, they have only themsleves to blame.
First off - why do they view them as jerks in the first place? Is it just a general dislike of the person, or is it some kind of jealousy complex because they see these "jerks" as only wanting to get into a girl's pants or something - when in reality they could be projecting their own insecurities about wanting to do the very same thing(although with "higher" motives, they say).
Lastly, is it a girl's fault if the "jerks" make themselves known far better? How the hell is a girl supposed to "look into someone's heart" or "find the good, quiet guy" when they're too shy or nice to make themselves known properly, and really sell themselves? Why would she just walk past all the confident, attractive guys to go look for the quiet guy standing near the wall, staring awkwardly?>>110
Who you really are has nothing to do with it. Who everyone else is, on the other hand, has everything to do with it.
Your statement was as silly and intentionally provocative as if you would have said that men are only good for slapping around.
Both are equally false.
Besides, you're less bitter to munch on with some spicy sweet sauce on. Hmmm... Some honey-mustard as well, perhaps?
Are you a cave or a forest troll? Cave trolls have thicker skin, living in cold caverns and all, and need to be grilled for a longer amount of time.
They view them as jerks because that's what they are. And since when is it the guy's job to "sell himself?" Ladies don't really put forth much initiative to begin with so it's a double standard. And yes, any girl who goes for a jerk just because he makes himself known is a fucking fool. Paris Hilton makes herself known just fine and the guys who pine after her are just as stupid.
Girls who like jerks are stupid girls unworthy of attention. Never dated a man like that since I'm not that kind of a girl.
Then again, we can always talk about the intellectual jerks, egocentric ones, those are actually very good to hang out with, because i myself am egocentric and that's how it goes, i have my privacy he has is own, it's a shared feeling for who we both are.
So it makes sense that stupid girls like jerks.
aim:sucks
Yeah, I have to agree with >>1 I really don't understand why the jerk types get a lot of ladies...Do many jerks have some sort of magical libido in their arsenal?
Hello I am an obnoxious, unintelligent teenage male jackass and I get all the girls.
Male jerks attract female jerks, both, as it turns out, are frequently athletic and attractive.
You are all stupid assholes.
why would I automatically assume//brand girls as stupid? that's even MORE stupid.