Nice guys will never get the girl, all that tv and movie bullshit will never come into play in real life. Sure you dont have to be a jerk, but if you act like the typical nice guy you will become their friend at best and the guy they cry to about other guys (aka, the gay friend) at worse.

I was nice, quiet and generaly good, but that got me nowhere. Eventually I just stopped careing about what girls thought about me. Now I dont mean walking around like a slob, I simply stopped trying to be nice to girls to make them like me. I became direct and sometimes a bit blunt. If something was said to me by a girl I would be honest even if it was hurtful for her.

I still havent had a real gf or gotten laid, but by god, at least now women pay attention and act like I actulay have a chance with them.