This is related to >>85 about saying no and/or not taking shit from a girl.

A girl my friend likes, sends him an email saying telling that he is an asshole for talking trash behind her back. He likes this girl and would never say anything that is truely hurtful about her (he jokes sometimes, but is never serious). However, rather than saying something like "I am sorry, I didn't mean to say it" or "I would never anything to hurt you." His reply was "Look woman, I say whatever the hell I want..." and goes on with is email asking if she got to eat some of the cookies he gave to her roommate. He ends the email saying "You have a big mouth, you better watch out before it gets you in trouble." And in the entire email, he never calls her by her name, insteads calls her woman or shawty.

And this is not the first time something like this happened to him. A girl from his high school called him a jerk for saying shit about one of her friends. He respond by, as he puts it by "skeeting words on her face," which was a literal verbal assault. She emails him back after that and APOLOGIZES TO HIM.

If you know my friend is not a jerk or an asshole. He understands the value of respect and if you do not respect him he will not respect you, that simple. And if, for example, girl disrespects him, he will not lie down and take it, but rather call the person out for the infraction. It is highly likely that tomorrow the girl will be apologizing for her comments. And if not, then he will have no business with her. He won't be disrespected, neither should we.