I grew up knowing his girl that lives right across the street from me. We never really talking since it was always my parents and her parents, who are really good friends by the way, that would always make conversation. I've known this girl since I moved into my house, which is basically all my life. Since we moved I never see or talk to her often anymore. She is really cute and I think she's hot. How should I come around and ask her out? I never see her anymore. I don't want to look like a dumbass and just come up to her and ask her out. Since we don't know each other that well. So I need some help. Thanks if you read it this far!
Why would asking her out make you look like a dumbass? If you have any way of contacting her ask her out for lunch, not dinner to make things more casual. Say you just miss hanging around her and you want just to chill and talk with her.
The thing is we were kids when we hung out. As the years kept going the less contact there was. now it's like I don't know her...(~_~)
Well then that makes it even easier then, doesn't it?
The big question is, why are you here on the internet, and not out doing something about it?
cuz it's 10:59pm and she's sleeping...that's why.
Or that i'm hella shy too...
That's why theres a hopeless in front of my name.
Get some sleep, grow some balls, and in the morning ask her out for lunch. The more you complicate it the more you will fuck up. Shyness is nothing.
Why don't you pay her a visit soon? It should be really easy as you know her from earlier in your life and she is your neighbor. You won't look like a dumbass, really.
yeah, good idea. I was thinking myspace then i can like ask through there, which for me is easier since I get all nervous when talking to girls i like.
UGH NO!! DO NOT ASK GIRLS OUT VIA MYSPACE. THAT IS LAME.
You're her neighbor for chrissake. Your discomfort in talking with her face to face needs to STOP and she'll likely be more apt to hit you up if you just buckled down, walked over there and asked her out in the morning than if you sent her a dinky little enternet message asking her out for pizza.
Good luck, noballs-kun.
Yeah, seriously.
Don't wuss out this time. You have to intercept and make your move!
Also, once she will see that you are sincere with all the nerveousness/stuttering, then she might find that cute and go out with you.
But if you do that Myspace move, then this game is over.
Lmao i cant belive you considered myspace.. oh wow.
But seriously just ask her. Maybe just bump into her as shes coming home from the library or where ever.
"heyheyhey! Havnt seen ya in ages! Wanna go grab lunch and catch up? hows it going? What ya been up to recently? Oh man let me tell ya, moving sucks. I hate being away from all my friends!" etc
Continued from >>11
I can understand your shyness though, i used to be really shy then one day i realised something. I realised that if i want something i just have to go for it. Simple as that. Get up, walk over the road and knock on that door.
It sounds hard but seriously. Just stand up now as you're reading this, move about or something. Now walk out that door.
Good luck :)
u show ur cock from the window
>>14
fucking lol'd.
girl looks @ window... horror sound
Seriously, atleast you can get her IM mail and start chatting with her on MSN or AIM.
>"heyheyhey! Havnt seen ya in ages! Wanna go grab lunch and catch up? hows it going? What ya been up to recently? Oh man let me tell ya, moving sucks. I hate being away from all my friends!" etc
blueprint version of every single 'get together' line there was.
LOLz, Now i have to wait till next weekend to do all the things you guys said.
>>16
What the butt, dude?!
It takes you a week to walk to your neighbor's house?
I guess you have to take a car there then.
No ,I live 2hrs away from her (2hr drive that is).
But I can't drive over there cuz my parents won't let me take teh car all teh way down there.
You are a liar, and I regret helping your stupid shy ass.
>>14 I did that before when I was like 10 haha
What a pussy, just take the car say you are going to a friends house and hope they don't check the miles.
>>20
good on u. did the gorgeous girl living next door get stimulated or wanked??
play with inflatable rubber doll instead.
For the love of GOD, HELP me.
No time, all work, no time to go out.
what you expect someone to give you a lift or something?
just break into her house, catch her, and slap her with ur cock
>>19 has point: 2 hours away hardly 'girl next door.' You evade or not answer question if she might be interested in you at all. What do you think?
Frigid Onanoko think this distance put significant strain on relation (you even have relation?) you wanna start. She gonna know that driving two hours to her, and two hours back is a bit much for just a chat.
If you can play cowboy, call her by phone and say ~ I remember how I liked you when we were neighbours and It'd be nice if we could have drink sometime. - then you have chance. You gonna have one shot, it win or lose. (remember cowboy sometimes unlucky too!) If you lose, if she no want, then you game over, otherwise you r stalker. really.
Maybe you lucky. Frigid Onanoko interested if you enough balls to do. Give you 1/3 chance success. Advise to go for it. So much for advice.
>>24, sounds pretty desperate, but FO think you no have problem that involve 'love of god.' Don't like unwarranted cry for help, make you sound like lazy boy. make you sound like idiot. Not sure if you deserve help actually, but haha! Frigid Onanoko really like to talk! nyah!
bye now.