okay so,
i just hooked up with this really cute asian girl that i met online yea? and so now everythign is good, except we are gonna try and keep our relationship a secret for many reasons.
how should i go about telling my friends/fam about this? because i feel really bad keeping stuff from them
Don't? Chances are it won't last.
Just enjoy it while it lasts, and don't expect too much from her.
I used to be a 13 year old Asian girl too.
well, if they tell you "secret embarrasing stuff" stuff they wouldn't tell anyone. they just want to pour their hearts out. (most of the time..) and most of the time it will not work out.
just change your image a bit. look confident about yourself for them (even if you are not)...
try to be always happy. and.. well, the rest is up to you ^^
>>7
ITT: respond to the person three posts after us
>>8 Of course not, you damn moron, you got it all wrong!
What is this thread about?
jail bait is it worth the time?
Jail bait is always worth the time
jail bait is it worth the prison rape?
Umm... Going past all the prison rape..
Well, honestly, go along with the flow and make your own decisions. If you want to tell people, tell. If she wants to tell people, let her. Long distant relationships are hard, and can bare tough problems along the way.
If you understand what you're in at the moment, and can honestly say you're not ashamed of it, then go and tell everyone! If not, try understanding both your feelings and hers before making any big decisions.
The thing about making decisions, is that a lot of people don't really understand them, even if they say they do.
Heh, I work a 40hr work week, and was seeing a girl about an hour & a half to two hours away... Granted, that didn't work out, but for other reasons;
An hour away is nothin'! Heck, I live half an hour away from where I work, for example...
An hour's nothin' to drive after work, and even if you spent the night... I know lots of people who get up in the morning & drive an hour into work, so even if you stayed there... It wouldn't be bad either...
And if things progress in the future, I don't know if she's a student or has a job or whatever, but perhaps either she'd relocate to come be with you, or vice versa...
It sounds like she was really into you (and I'm hoping it was more than a physical attraction, more along the lines of something lasting, so see where it goes... An hour drive's nothing compared to a good relationship!
>>11 yea, i'm just gonna go with it for a while. a few of her friends know already, but i'm gonna wait for it to become serious be4 i tell anyone. but if they ask like "hey, you have a gf or anything like that, i'll tell them.
>>12 if only she lived an hour away. if that was the case there wouldnt be a problem and i wouldnt call it "long distance". you see, i shoulda clarified this, she lives THOUSANDS of miles away. it would be a 5+ hour FLIGHT to get to her O.o
okay, i'm back after about monthy =P
we've been going out, and all has been good. we've told a few friends and tehy have accepted it. but i think we might be starting to get serious...
like, i think i love her... i think i seriously love her, because right now i feel like i'd do anything for her. i would even just drop whatever i'm doing now, take out a loan, and fly across to hawai'i if she needed me.... and she admited to not knowing yet. but she said that she just needs a bit more time...
so, if it does get serious... i'm not sure if i should tell my parents or not. i mean, it is something they should know about, but i know for a fact they wouldnt like...
advice?
it's been 4 months since me and her started going out.
things have been a bit hectic due to 3 jerk's who poisoned/violated her, but they're going to juvi so that's all good. only problem is now i have feelings for another girl.
so, to protect they're identitys i'll name them Kelly and Kylie. Kylie is the girl i'm with now, and kelly is the girl i like.
Me and kylie have had some rocky times, but i think things are about to smooth out, but that usually proves wrong. I know she's in love with me, but lately i'm not sure what kind of love i feel for her. is it the "i want to be with you" love, or the "your my best friend and i'd do anything for you" love. as i said, she's gone through some bad shit lately, and i seriously want to kill those 3 guys for what they did to her. but, it's been 4 months and we havnt met once. she told me that her sisters are thinking about taking her up here for a christmas present near the end of the month, but, i'm not to sure on wether or not that's gonna end up happening. i'e already gone through a lot of dissapointment like this. and i'm not sure if she's telling me this just so that i wont break up with her...
and then there is Kelly. she's been there for me a lot, and i've been there for her. i've known her for a bit over a year but i feel like i've known her my whole life. and, i like her, and she likes me i think. after i spent the whole day with her last week, she started to bring up the dance that's coming up soon. so, i asked her to the dance without realizing what i was doing. so now, i'm going with her to the dance, i like her, she likes me.
and now, i dont know what i should do.
should i go for
Kylie; Girlfriend of 4 months, been there for me, i've been there for her, i wouldnt be able to stand seeing her with another guy, i get jelous of her guy friends REALLY easily, and i'm kinda protective of her. but, at this rate i'm not going to meet her till '09.
or
Kelly: i like her, she likes me, i can see us together, she's my date for the dance, konwn her longer, and she's here and i see her everyday.
advice?
it's been 4 months since me and her started going out.
things have been a bit hectic due to 3 jerk's who poisoned/violated her, but they're going to juvi so that's all good. only problem is now i have feelings for another girl.
so, to protect they're identitys i'll name them Kelly and Kylie. Kylie is the girl i'm with now, and kelly is the girl i like.
Me and kylie have had some rocky times, but i think things are about to smooth out, but that usually proves wrong. I know she's in love with me, but lately i'm not sure what kind of love i feel for her. is it the "i want to be with you" love, or the "your my best friend and i'd do anything for you" love. as i said, she's gone through some bad shit lately, and i seriously want to kill those 3 guys for what they did to her. but, it's been 4 months and we havnt met once. she told me that her sisters are thinking about taking her up here for a christmas present near the end of the month, but, i'm not to sure on wether or not that's gonna end up happening. i'e already gone through a lot of dissapointment like this. and i'm not sure if she's telling me this just so that i wont break up with her...
and then there is Kelly. she's been there for me a lot, and i've been there for her. i've known her for a bit over a year but i feel like i've known her my whole life. and, i like her, and she likes me i think. after i spent the whole day with her last week, she started to bring up the dance that's coming up soon. so, i asked her to the dance without realizing what i was doing. so now, i'm going with her to the dance, i like her, she likes me.
and now, i dont know what i should do.
should i go for
Kylie; Girlfriend of 4 months, been there for me, i've been there for her, i wouldnt be able to stand seeing her with another guy, i get jelous of her guy friends REALLY easily, and i'm kinda protective of her. but, at this rate i'm not going to meet her till '09.
or
Kelly: i like her, she likes me, i can see us together, she's my date for the dance, konwn her longer, and she's here and i see her everyday.
advice?
it's been 4 months since me and her started going out.
things have been a bit hectic due to 3 jerk's who poisoned/violated her, but they're going to juvi so that's all good. only problem is now i have feelings for another girl.
so, to protect they're identitys i'll name them Kelly and Kylie. Kylie is the girl i'm with now, and kelly is the girl i like.
Me and kylie have had some rocky times, but i think things are about to smooth out, but that usually proves wrong. I know she's in love with me, but lately i'm not sure what kind of love i feel for her. is it the "i want to be with you" love, or the "your my best friend and i'd do anything for you" love. as i said, she's gone through some bad shit lately, and i seriously want to kill those 3 guys for what they did to her. but, it's been 4 months and we havnt met once. she told me that her sisters are thinking about taking her up here for a christmas present near the end of the month, but, i'm not to sure on wether or not that's gonna end up happening. i'e already gone through a lot of dissapointment like this. and i'm not sure if she's telling me this just so that i wont break up with her...
and then there is Kelly. she's been there for me a lot, and i've been there for her. i've known her for a bit over a year but i feel like i've known her my whole life. and, i like her, and she likes me i think. after i spent the whole day with her last week, she started to bring up the dance that's coming up soon. so, i asked her to the dance without realizing what i was doing. so now, i'm going with her to the dance, i like her, she likes me.
and now, i dont know what i should do.
should i go for
Kylie; Girlfriend of 4 months, been there for me, i've been there for her, i wouldnt be able to stand seeing her with another guy, i get jelous of her guy friends REALLY easily, and i'm kinda protective of her. but, at this rate i'm not going to meet her till '09.
or
Kelly: i like her, she likes me, i can see us together, she's my date for the dance, konwn her longer, and she's here and i see her everyday.
advice?