Continued from >>42 (proof that this post is way too long):

>Not only is this true, but you should also consider the fact that even if things do not feel as comfortable in real life as they do in your fantasy (at least not right away), there is Great value in actually interacting. Meeting and knowing People is much more fulfilling and Interesting than being confined to your own mind, your own knowledge and experience. Is it any wonder that the acknowledged writers of history have largely been those who interacted with others at the most respected levels of soceity? Those who lives were interesting and vibrant in themselves?

I actually agree wholeheartedly. Getting to know people can be fun, and beneficial. Even if the actual interaction can be difficult to me.
I think the only thing that ever keeps me from interacting with other people is timidity. Sometimes I really want to socialize, but have trouble finding the courage to break the ice. But still, a good part of the time it goes finely.
I should admit that I don't really actively look for opportunities to get to know people. I never visit clubs or bars and such. I guess I only meet people in college, and sometimes at birthday parties and the like. On the other hand, I don't think building extensive social networks is really my cup of tea, and I don't think there's any sense in trying to adopt a life style that doesn't suit me.

Tl;dr: I'm not a complete recluse. I often have trouble talking to people, for fear of being misinterpreted, but I try my best to do it anyway.
I know dreams are no substitute for reality. At the start of this topic, love was an exception to that, but I now agree it's best to only consider it a place holder, and not to take it too seriously.