You "Otaku" that want to date a "female otaku" make me sick.

A true otaku knows that the only girl for him is Kinomoto Sakura-sama and Takamachi Nanoha-sama. Yurie and Kamiyama Mangetsu-chan are up there too, but the point is, 2D, 2D LOVE!

If you want to watch anime with other people, get a nico nico douga acocunt, or some friends that are worth hanging around. If you want to play games with others, find local tournaments or games with acceptable online play.

Being an otaku is about eroge and 2D love. All the "otaku" girls I've talked to around the US are... well... if they weren't girls, people would run around calling them dumbasses. On MMORPGs, the players that are actually girls, well, absolutely suck. I know a priest in RO whom would sit around and buff the enemies while our castle was being taken.
And 3D girls that play Fighters are a joke, I've never seen one worth a damn thing. Definitely no Konata. Most of them seem to find their anime from ANN.

The point is, why are you guys interested in the first place? If a worth opponent is a female, show no mercy or fascination. If a girl plays an RPG it's almost guaranteed she won't hit max level or go for all the secrets. It is just their nature. A girl would not spend 100% of their paychecks on doujinshi, eroge, figures etc. They all seem to want clothes and "real" food. What the hell, why do the fools always tell me to eat "actual" food? $4.50 for a meal? HA! I could get a trading figure for that!!!