Hello, 4-ch! I want to hear your troubles! Post what you're worried about.
Feel free to ridicule other posts. We're all just bored, spoiled souls.
>>155 Exactly!
Having a goal is the single most important thing one can do to stave off depression.
It's really the only thing you can do. EVERYONE has a goal. If they don't, they become depressed and eventually suicide.
Keep in mind:
Only when you feel you have no control over your situation, does the urge to commit suicide overtake you.
It will seem to be the one thing you can do to take control over your life. It is logical.
Thus! to avoid committing suicide, give yourself control over your life in another way.
tl;dr
> Having a goal is the single most important thing one can do to stave off depression.
Pfft. Trying is the first step towards failure. Everyone knows that.
(._. )
I'm 21. I'm in the kind of family where money comes in automatically every month by the virtue of the good business sense of my long-deceased grandfather.
I've spent about 3 years (non-consecutive) living the shut-in lifestyle, alone in a small apartment. My mother has lived the last 20 years that way.
I really want to do something with my life, getting better habits and all that, and I probably could gather the willpower to do just that, but I have no incentive, nothing to push me forward, and trying was to spark change suddenly don't work. I set objectives, but I procrastinate too much.
I don't have real friends and can't get help from my family (I'm in bad terms with my father and don't know him much, and the rest of my family has no authority at all over me, but I am in good terms with them).
I'm gonna move in to another house for various reason in about 4 months. I want to have better habits by then so that the new environment helps me to sustain more efforts, but I have not done much yet to improve myself :(.
You could always volunteer or help out some random community event around the place that you are going to. You don't have to go crazy thinking of an idea on how to become more active and other people will notice you by what you are doing. And since you have established that you aren't in a huge money crisis, it shouldn't be too much of a problem.
>>161
The problem is not really thinking any of this stuff out, it's getting my stupid lazy ass out to do stuff. What you said is right, I'm going for ~10 days in the city where I'll live in two weeks, I'll try to see what is organized there.
I was going to post a long and emo rant but after reading some of your stories i don't feel the need anymore. THANKS
Also, i'm a very boring person and have no idea how to make friends or become an intresting and fun person
my university semester has finished. people are starting to go home for christmas, and early next week i'll be going home too. the problem is i have no friends at home. i have no job, since i don't need money, because i don't have any friends and therefore don't go out. also i'm lazy. my life at uni isn't perfect by any means, but it's way better than what i used to have, and i really don't want to go back to it. i'll really miss certain people too (well, one in particular).
so, basically, i'll just spend the next 3 or so weeks feeling shitty like i did in the summer. by the end of that i was too depressed to do anything other than lie on the couch watching crappy stand-up or whichever channel happened to be showing an episode of scrubs.
i think it might have something to do with my parents splitting up as well. they never really got on for the past few years, so everyone's technically better off now they aren't together anymore, but they also kind of cancelled each other out. spending a lot of time with my mum just tends to depress me. but yeah, probably less to do with her in particular and more the lack of human interaction other than her and occasionally the guy in the petrol station if i run out of dr. pepper.
>>163
Everyone has something to offer the world... I bet you have interesting knowledge or hobbies, but you just don't consider them to be interesting.
Well, as long as you are a reasonably nice person you have something to offer. Don't strive to be the best of the best or the greastest and most fun guy in the world, because maybe that just isn't your strong suit. Making friends is one of those things that can be difficult and awkward, but the best advice I could give is find a club or group of people that share your interests. Friendships come easily that way.
>>156
Yeah, take vitamins and EAT WELL. I don't think people realize how much diet and activity level has to do with happiness. Seriously. Physical hobbies will definitely help. Learn the bo staff or something!
>>130
I'm on the same boat dude. Well maybe I don't feel as bad as you, but still I have tried to commit suicide few times. I was few years ago. I failed, though i think a part of me died that time - I feel so empty and void now, like zombie or something.
as cheesy as >>165san sounds, he's actually right. See i live in a country where our winters are all helladark, and due to irregular sleeping habits i go about two months with less than 5 hours of sun a week. This + not really moving a lot really really sucks.
But lately i've started going downtown on foot / skateboard (when it's dry enough) which is just plain awesome, skating 13km a day is so the happypill you wouldn't believe it.
I procrastrinate... a lot. It´s really bothersome.
I just got Animal Crossing. Tom Nook's shop closes at 11. What the FUCK.
>>170
lol
Sooner or later we'll have to get a board for psychological problems. Some of you are whack.
You know those times when the entire universe seems to be against you? I'm having one right now.
As backstory, my desktop's motherboard crapped out about two weeks ago. I finally got around to buying a new mb on ebay... get it in, hook everything up, things are good, right? Well, I get antsy and decide I want to take the old USB jacks out of the front of my case and throw in the extra USB2.0 jacks that came with the board. Of course, some custom work was involved... okay, power on, ERROR LOADING OS. OH SHI-
I should add that I currently have two HDDs, and I'm dual-booting Windows and LUNIX. So, okay, I'm tired of Fedora anyway, let's just get rid of it. Time to fix the MBR - well, I can't. My copy of XP isn't bootable, so I can't get to the recovery console. But that's okay, I've got the (6) XP boot floppys.... NO WAIT, THEY'RE CORRUPT. Okay, okay... I'll download a fresh copy.
THEY'RE CORRUPTED TOO.
SHITSHITSHITSHITSHIT.
It's wonderful when every single layer of your contingency plan fails miserably, lol.
I'm not surprised you're tired of Fedora. Try Ubuntu instead.
I slept funny and now my back hurts.
I have failed my Japanese class. This is seriously affecting me. Now I have nothing to do but to quit college, pack my bags and go home. And even that is getting hard for me. I have nobody to talk to except my parents and girlfriend. And she lives far away from me. I miss her. ;__;
But then, I also will see her again. I will find a meaning in my life. I am not a teenager anymore. I will accept some responsibility.
Good job >>177, it's never the end of the world
>>179 = Ganbatte ne? = Good luck/go for it/wish you well.
I don't think I did very well on that Network Security exam.
I don't think anyone did.
>>176
This sounds like a girl in my class. I want to fuck her.
Dude, you sound like you're bored by yourself. Get up, get out, and do things. Really. If nothing else, it will increase the odds of running into someone else who likes you.
Ok seriously. I hate it when people have to study every single goddamn word you say to find A HIDDEN MESSAGE. NO I DON'T HATE YOU AND I THINK THE THINGS YOU DO ARE PERFECTLY FINE. STOP TRYING TO FIND WAYS TO SAY THAT I'M AGAINST YOU. Some people are way too goddamn pompous and think they know every single thing about all of the humans that move on this planet.
BASICALLY WHY DO WE JUDGE PEOPLES LIFE STORIES 5 SECONDS AFTER MEETING THEM
what do you do when your personality changes everyday?
im not calling dr phil.
>>187
Do what you've always done~
The gameboy SP was really poorly designed:
-The buttons are too small
-Its too thin to provide a good grip
-The top screen moves the center of gravity so its even more uncomfortable to use
-Top screen really isn't neccesary at all
-The carts are needlessly small (easy to lose)
-The carts have exposed pins
i meant to post in the 'Thread for finding "DQN" or "VIP" in your ID' thread, but accidentally posted here instead.
>>192
That's a big problem. Tell us more about it.
That woman was supposed to come look at my car today at lunch, but she never called or showed up. Doesn't she realize I have a test at 2:00?! :mad:
Bleh, her messenger had left a message with my family telling me to call back today. Not knowing that, I had called her about an hour later, and she told me I would receive a call today. Additionally, my teacher said he would call her to day (for me?)
So who's calling who?
dunno, lol.
I wish those people would call me, though. They said they had to make sure they could get the loan... but they also said they would call me around 9:00am! It's almost noon now! I took off of work and everything... geez.
I FUCKING HATE DUKE!!!
In Soviet Russia, Duke hates you!
I lack attention span.
Some bus driver wanted to beat me up and get my car towed off by the police because I parked at a bus station. I drove away, now I fear that I might get in trouble with the police.
I have to face my ex-gf this spring/summer holiday.
I'm too lazy/have no good motivation to lose weight/exercising.
My next official work starts september, but I can't find a decent paying job to bridge me until then.
I can't get a decent sleep cycle, mostly I spleep at day because I got nothing decent to do (or actually are too lazy to do anything, like for example writing my novel), so I'm awake at night and trolling the internet.
I got some scratches in my 10.000€ car.
I'm a bitter virgin.
The guy whom I worked for until december doesn't want to pay me what he owes me.
Hm, yeah.
200GET
I feel a cold coming on.
Valentine's day is coming up...
>>202
that wouldn't be much of a problem if people didn't keep reminding me about it
I just found out that I've got to hurry up and take another shitty correspondence course if I want to graduate in May.
OH SHI-
>>206
Are you sure it's the wrong thread?
>>205
wtf is that shit, what thread were you trying to post that in?
>>205
is that a problem??
It's epson advertisement.
My problem:
I usually sleep in pajamas, however I decided to find out how it feels to sleep naked so I took everything off. It feels real good.
I decided to come here and post in the "post here if you're naked" thread, but I can't find it. :(
Sleeping naked is the best. That way you don't wake up with your pajamas surrounding you and shit, tangled and wrapped up in your legs when you toss and turn. It's the worst feeling ever!
no, sleeping in a nightie is the worst ever, because it rides up as it gets tangled during sleep, and you wake up with wrinkly pajamas smothering you up top, but totally uncovered from the waist down.
>>214 sounds liek a scene right out of an H game.
It's Valentine's day.
No chocolates so far... :(
>>214
pics plz
Fuck you dude, i'm in school and couldn't resist some konkon :(
hopefully administrators are H!P fans
>konkon as in rorikon?
Yes, being why it is a problem.
>>220
an American/European guy who sits alone on valentine's day, waiting for girls to shower him with chocolates = wapanese
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20060214/wl_nm/life_japan_valentine_dc
:goes off to weaboo up L&R:
i need to move to japan, i spent like my entire pay check on my girl today. and what did i get in return? a kiss and a smile.
>>224
thats worth more than anything in the world, at least to me, or mabye its not. least you got a girl though =P, i think thats good enough
FUCKING bLACK CHICKS IN MY CLASS KEEP ON BOTHERING ME CAUSE I DONT DRESS GANGSTER THEY CAN GO FUCKING DIE
FUCKING CAPP THEM IN THE ASS THEN nIGGA THEY BETTER RECOGNIZE
My problem is I can't figure out where >>205 was trying to post.
>225
yeah you are right, i kinda bitter when i wrote that because i i had to write a paper and couldnt a lot of time with my girl.
I have a problem: there have been no new posts in this thread since I last checked.
>>226
Reminds me of my middle school days.
School jobs are piling up over me and I haven´t got the attention span to deal with them.
Also; I´m starting to run out of money.
Also; I´m trying to do techno, but I suck at compression.
Also; my friend keeps beating me at Go.
I went to the school cafeteria, got my food, prepared to pay... and they said 'we can't take credit cards today.' And I didn't have any cash.
I had to throw away perfectly good food.
orz
>>232
tell /music/ about your compression woes. we're here to help.
I've got a scab in my right nostril.
>>234
I´m grateful.
http://4-ch.net/music/kareha.pl/1140199800/
My computer is electrified. I get small electric shocks from touching it and I constantly hear a buzzing sound in my earphones. I don´t know what to do about it and I currently can´t afford to have it repaired.
>>237
Don't worry about it. My computer "shocks" me too. Usually its because the outlets in your place don't have a third prong for grounding. You also might want to check the connection between your PC and headphones. The just might be some dirt in there...at least that's what I think.
....Now where was I. Ahh, yes, my problems. Where do I begin?
Everytime I write something on 2ch, I get this heart warming welcome message as a reply: いい加減にしろ
I guess no one takes me seriously.. orz
My job does not pay anywhere near what I am worth.
Why is it that so much fanfic sucks?
And why is it that when you finally find a good story, the author never gets around to finishing it?
There's nothing more depressing than seeing an epic, multi-part series that was last updated in 2002... :(
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>>241
Dude, you read fanfic. You have bigger problems than the one you mentioned.
i'm drinking bad coffee
i'm drinking too much coffee
>>240
Or maybe the converse: you're not worth anything near what your job pays?
Thank your god you're not a starving African!
i'm not drinking coffee
i need to drink coffee to keep up in my classes.
i cant focus on my history paper
im drinking pirukuru. it's tera good.
It´s too late.
I can't find the Crappa Mikey topic
I'm fucking sick.
A few nights ago I had diarrhea, after that I just didn't feel good. Today I had to go to the hospital and get an IV because I was dehydrated. I still feel sick but it really helped.
Such fun.
i dont go out anymore cuz everyone i know is a cunthead
I have a big zit on my cheek. Does anybody know any quick remedies for deflating pimples?
