Dang! I wanted the 1000th! haha
i don't think that is true mon, if one hates the world he can still live in his own fantasies, which i don't mean masturbating all day, i mean anime, manga, v.games, bookz and stuff. in tihs world one has to earn a living, but the rest is optional remember that mon.. u can do whatever the fuck u want and tell others to go and fuck their mutters if they don't like u
i've been a geek all my life and i loved my geeky life as much as i hated the stupid ppl of the 'normal' world
liek Ayanami, she doesn't exist in reality but she's in my heart, my heart is a temple where Ayanami resides, with Lacus Clyne, Nausicaa and all the others, and i love them all and they love me.
so taht's why i thnink one should'nt kill oneself, when all else is went to fuck, heterh's still oru inner world which can save us from damnation
i love you rei..
I had the first date of my life before last christmas. I want to tell about it now. It was very nice, yes. Was it love that peeked down from the sky on us? What a precious time it was to share these lovely hours with my date. I may finally have an inkling about what those silly romance movies want to depict. I am thankful. For the rest of the day I could hardly think about anything else, my first date. I didn't wave goodbye on the train platform. stupid.
On the plane that night, nearing my home on the other side of the world, all those wonderful impressions were still celebrating together. We shall meet again. I sometimes wonder what my feelings are, if they are love. We did get closer, that's for sure. We each found that we enjoyed our time together, did we not? If only we would have had more time together to explore what could have been. I remain uncertain about us. Still I am happy for the time we had.
And I miss you...
waah!!! what am writing! silly, silly, frigid onanoko silly to put this on web!! But its true.
Frigid onanoko warn all you! this no request for advice, this rant. Have own ideas how to deal with. wishing all happy new year!
saying goodbye now.... goodbye.
~silly ~silly ~oooh, how silly....
Damn Frigid Onanoke, you have been giving such good advice in a very unique style, I am shocked you went on your girst date recently. But congrats man. I wish the best for you.
>>202 shit mon, distance relationship sucks hard...
My only gf was 500 km away from where I live (~300 miles?), every sunday morning I would take the train.... I was spending one quarter of my salary in fucking trains..
But shit mon... I can't imagine how u can hold a relationship if u live in another continent, to me it sounds fucking crazy mon!_!
Maybe if ur rly in love, i dunno, i wasn't rly in love with mine, she had far too many personal issues for me to handle, always depressed and shit.. and the money expense was too high anyway for me to keep at it indefinitely.
I don't know mon.. don't have too many hopes on this.-.
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>>172
Why don't you fuck her? Not everything has to be a full-blown relationship to be enjoyable.In fact, if you start having lots of casual sex you'll find its a lot easier to get a girlfriend because you won't be so needy, and you'll end up with a girlfriend you are actually attracted to
>>17
some guys take every girl and u have none left. But its not because they are more handsome than u. its because they know how to treat girls better(nothing to do with money u have either, usually)
who fuck knows if she is flirty or just really nice. u just go for sex. succeed or not succeed is not a big issue here. itll be a good experience for the future anyway.
>>210 ok. now can you please leave this board, woman?
>>211
if u dont wanna see me, maybe u can leave here. bye
>>212 if every one does as you say then the only person remaining would be you.
GTFO already
I need some advice.
I don't have the best luck with girls. I've asked a few girls out before. The first 2 just wanted to be friends, I think I may hvae even scared the 2nd one off.
The 3rd girl I asked ended up having a boyfriend.
I just want to know. How can I tell if a girl is interested and not just being nice?
Also, what's the best way to approach a girl? I've heard that guys should try to be friends first. Does this mean just getting to know them better?
Ask out 50 girls. At least one might agree, and by the time you get done, you'll probably figure out what they like and gain the confidence to do anything.
Oh, but don't let them find out about it. You don't want a reputation.
Le sigh.
A girl asked me, whom I barely know, but I saw a glimpse of her and she was quite pretty and was like DO I LIKE HER on MSN and I was like YOU'RE QUITE AWWRIGHT.
I fucked it up again.
I should've said yes.
Fuck.
Don't regret you past decisions. You had reasons for doing so, and those reasons probably still hold true.
>>217
Well, I realized that I said that she looks quite all right at a glimpse. Because that's the most I have seen her :P
But what the butt, why am I even thinking so much about it.
>I said that she looks quite all right at a glimpse. Because that's the most I have seen her
lol
u should have said something SHE wanted to hear. ...well, forget about the woman, its too late.
Dude, this single thing is nice. I can drink as much as I want without people badmouthing me.
Frigid onanoko hate so say, hate to ask, but think need some advice.
Wrote before about a date, the date was great but fate then parted us to end what Frigid Onanoko commence to lament. (>>202) Still, we have chat. Gonna call date Wong, it random chinese surname.
Lately, Wong talk about song on chat for while. Frigid Onanoko supposed to listen to it. But not done until today. Then hit like frying pan, perhaps - no probably - Wong use lyrics to tell something? It no necessary tell what song (is secret, heehee!), but give hope to FO, it beautiful, it also have these lines:
"Angels have no thought of ever returning you
Would they be angry if I thought of joining you?"
Now inspiration hit FO, gonna also suggest title. Of course there plenty lovesongs, but that not do. Yes, good date, yes it click - yet, just one day; separated by at least half year until next chance. Keep real, stay careful, be cool. That what need to be now.
Here is problem: Need song to suggest. Gonna confine choice. It preferably indirect about love. It not about conquering heavens (at least not before tomorrow). You know, careful, at least show understood Wongs message, and positive about.
Looking forward to reactions! bye now.
something by the beatles?
thanks >>222 FO like beatles too. Probably gonna suggest 'stairway to heaven' Led Zeppelin.
The real problem now is that we have never discussed our date yet or how we feel about each other even though I want to hear so dearly from Wong what the feelings are between us. Our date got locked out from conversation as if it never even happened. Talking about mere trivialities instead of this just hurts. Yesterday I realized that keeping silent on this matter was grossly unfair to the both of us and would put significant strain on our relation. We had come so close in such a short time, but as amazing as it was to me and hopefully Wong as well, I felt our hearts hiding from each other. Keeping silent about this was going to become a big wedge. It is unjust to let this go on.
So I wrote Wong a letter yesterday spending 3 hours one page, writing my soul out for the benefit of... what? What can I say about a person when we've met only for such a short period? (I'd invited Wong for coffee on campus before, it wasn't really just one day) If I am going to say the love word, can I even justify it? Isn't it really stupid to have such dreams in the first place when we're living so far from each other? And then, I don't even know if Wong reciprocates my feelings. Those were my fears, and the reason why conversation with Wong was difficult and stressing.
However, I believe that Wong deserves to know me. I may have gone a bit over the top in my letter but I tried to ensure that, whatever happens, we will have open, honest communication - or nothing. I anxiously await Wongs response.
FO, out. bye.
>>216
I thought you were a girl.
>>223
Lmao stairway to heaven ;)
How about "Your body's a Wonderland" -John Mayer
I have a chance at earning a full time job in the near future. Maybe then I won't feel so embarassed to talk about myself and open up to other people. Namely females. ;_;
stairway to heaven no good?
sometimes it's just hard to open up around anyone. I've always found it hard to open up, no matter the sex of the person I was talking with.
>>228
Except when posting on an anonymous forum, eh?
But yeah, I'm like that too. Oddly enough, the person I can talk to the most is probably my younger sister.
>>229
oh online I can talk to anyone haha, I've always had so many internet friends ever since I've had internet. It's so much easier to say things when its just words on a screen then when its with your voice.
>>230
I hear you there.
how about stevie wonder's 'knocks me off my feet'
but picking a song is nothing compared to what you are facing. feel. i wish you luck with your letter, i really can't give advice except about music.
Talking, talking, Frigid Onanoko talking again, to whom? not care! even nobody listen, FO rejoice in letter responded to today. Wong feel magic too (and oh, FO, your letter sooooo beautifuul!! -> me swoon on tummy through room/)
Trying regain consciousness as walk with head in clouds.
Oh Wong,
I could sit for days under the withered tree at the sea,
tea to the side,
mesmerizing about you.
You fade away as time goes by
It fades, but not what I know,
your presence is so wonderful.
uhh... as saying, trying to regain consciousness. wish luck, people please! bye.
see I thought I was over this girl and I am more or less. I'm fine when i'm awake but she's always in my dreams. She's be in 6 or 7 out of every 10 dream I have for the past month.
>>234
Maybe that girl still has the hearts for you and she's hinting it in your dreams
>>227
Lol nah, just that it reminded me of a joke. Something about ladders and stockings :P
Goodluck with your er....whirlwind romance ey..
Valentines Day is coming up and it will be so sad. In High school without a gf. Will life ever get better....
hopefully. but you gotta remember, getting a gf and love isn't all there is to life! there are other things too!
>>234
I know that too. And that's almost five years afterwards.
I really like this girl, because she is kind, talented, intelligient. In my high school im an underclassman and im only in the normal classes while she is in the advanced classes, student council, and choir. I've talked to her many times, and she barely seems to notice me. Last time we were together she did laugh at my joke but im pretty sure she only likes smart guys. My new buddies are her friends, but im very sure they would mock me, if I told them I like her.
"Last time we were together she did laugh at my joke..."
She laughed...you got a chance buddy!
I dont think so I mean my grades are probably crap compared to hers. Also I forgot to mention that a while ago I asked this girl out on a date. Anyways before I could go on my first date in high school, a few misunderstandings occurred and now that girl thinks Im a pervert. That girl who I asked out is in the same group of friends as the girl I like. Also the joke I told was lame, and me and her where kind of forced to be together. I did tell one of my buddies though, and I hope hes going to keep it a secret. Anyways he said that the choir is selling Hershey's chocolates to raise funds for a school trip, and I was thinking of buying some from her? Should I, I mean would it help?
I dont think so I mean my grades are probably crap compared to hers. Also I forgot to mention that a while ago I asked this girl out on a date. Anyways before I could go on my first date in high school, a few misunderstandings occurred and now that girl thinks Im a pervert. That girl who I asked out is in the same group of friends as the girl I like. Also the joke I told was lame, and me and her where kind of forced to be together. I did tell one of my buddies though, and I hope hes going to keep it a secret. Anyways he said that the choir is selling Hershey's chocolates to raise funds for a school trip, and I was thinking of buying some from her? Should I, I mean would it help?
(p.s the girl I asked out and rejected from is not the girl I like, but a friend of hers)
>>I was thinking of buying some from her? Should I, I mean would it help?
Duh, that's a given. It'll let you chat to her for a while (pretend you don't know what she's fundraising for..etcetc). And it'll show her you're not a stingy bastard.
Okay but she dosent have an e-mail.. actually I heard she only uses a computer for school. But I assume I could still get more talking time with her?
I guess im spending $ 3.00 today at school. Thanks alot. What else could I do?
ask her out for coffee
Right like its that easy.
Yea personally I think you need to worry about that other girl spreading rumors because that will ruin your reputation with the girl you like. Unless it already has. Ways to reverse that? I think your in a dilemna there.
>Last time we were together she did laugh at my joke but im pretty sure she only likes smart guys.
>I dont think so I mean my grades are probably crap compared to hers.
Don't worry about those things. They're irrelevant when it comes to love (that sounded kinda corny..).
I think its very relavent. I dont know what your backround is but when I grew up my parents always had a "criteria" for the type of girl I should be interested in. If that girl is steeped in similair traditions I think you should greatly consider that. Dont change who you are because of who you like, instead improve yourself right?
I think its relevant. I dont know what your backround is but when I was younger my parents always had a "criteria" for the kind of girl I should like (i.e. good grades, respectable family.. etc.). If that girl you like is steeped in those ways then I think you should consider it. Dont change yourself for someone you like but improve right?
My parents too, but if you really like someone, would you blow them off just because they had bad grades?
Okay just got back from school. I didnt buy any chocolates because most of the day I was hiding.. however at the last period I saw her in the hallway when I went to the bathroom. I looked like an idiot. She was just walking and all I did was stare.
Remember that hiding is not always the best solution my friend, I do have some experience with girls, sometimes you think you're just a "nuisance", but it's not always like that.
But I wonder what I'm talking about.. The girl I used to like.. well I was all shy about her, she was like from another world, she didn't like anything I liked and viseversa... however, I was just in love with the way she was, I managed to confess my feelings to her, she didn't say a word about it for some time, till I gave up and she confessed to me.. but it was too late already. ( that happened 1 week ago ).
Just talk to her. That's all I can say.
"Verse beats Face"
Haha. I really like this guys story. Can I make a seperate thread?
Oh well too late.
I dont want a thread. I think the stalker thing could go away.. but about not worrying about that girls grades or I guess differences I can accept. I just brought that up because I think she minds those things. Well Im only guessing. After my staring contest challenge should I still buy chocolates?
Also last semester I happened to see her during one of my religion classes. Everyone went to go get their textbooks, and I happened to be the first people back in the class room. I looked out the door and she was at her locker puting some books in her backpack. A few other classmates came back and started talking so I poked my head out of the door, and said "hey *******" as I waved my hand. She didnt even turn around. -.-
To tell you the truth.. Girls are something complicated, at least for us(guys). You can't really know what she's thinking. Maybe she didn't turn around because she does feel something?
Why don't you try to get closer to her? I mean, help her with something she can't do.
Maybe that'll do the trick.
about the chocolates, you should buy them, however you need to really think out what to write on the card.
I would give her a rose.
>To tell you the truth.. Girls are something complicated, at least for us(guys). You can't really know what she's thinking. Maybe she didn't turn around because she does feel something?
Do you actually want to know what they are thinking? Remember girls never know what they want.
I like the idea of getting closer, except reverse. You said she is in advance classes, ask her to tutor you.
And what misunderstanding happened with the girl you asked out? If it is something not that bad it can easily be fixed.
Thanks alot guys. About the chocolates I was thinking of buying them from her because they are for funding a school choir trip. Also I am not really friends with her that I can ask her to tutor me, and it wouldnt make sense because most of my friends are in advanced classes. If you wondering about what happened between me and her friend was that a few months ago we had a winter ball. So I actually danced and had fun with a few girls (they didnt know me.. I have a big school) so this one girl was looking at me kinda funny. So when I sat down this one girls friend told me I should ask her out. Being the clueless person I am I thought she liked me so I asked her out. I think she said yes at the dance only to make me feel happy there, but was planning to break it off I guess after. At school I asked for her number, email, from my friend. I talked to her and she told me to stop calling her, and after got mad at my friend for giving her number away. After she told everyone I was obsessed with her. Recently I saw her again walking down the stairs.. and when I saw her I couldnt help but smile and be nice. She took it wrongly and now every time shes in the hallway with one of her friends she grabs their hands and runs away making look like im a stalker. Yeah I did have fun with her and I felt pressured to ask her out. But I only felt compelled to do it because I havent hung out with just a girl for a while so I thought experience is good. But honestly the time at that dance I was always glancing over to the girl I like know.. the one with the hershey chocolates.
*now (last line). Because the girl that I like is pretty much in all advanced classes, should I ask my friend in those classes to help me meet her so I can buy some chocolates. Or does that seem like a bad request? He is busy all the time, and I am afraid to go up to her by myself.
Well no shit she thinks you are a stalker. You called her and you never asked HER for her number. Just play it off, the girl is a bit crazy.
For your girl, do you know her well enough if you are walking by her in the hallway you can have a nice casual conversation?
I dont think so. I mean we have met a few times, but mostly because of my friend or some school activity. Every time I try to initiate conversation something goes wrong like that one time, by the hallway. Now when I encounter her its mostly when im with friends or if shes with her friends. I could maybe get some more courage when we are alone but I am afraid of the same thing happening that she ignores me as if I dont exist.. or as if she forgot who I am.
Thats why I hope that if my friend can help arrange for me to buy some chocolates maybe she will think about me and not shrug me off as some other guy. If only I could do alot more with buying chocolates like pull my grades up, join clubs, councils, play 5 instruments and sing. But for now thats all I've got, and I really need help.
someone is making excuses.. just go for it
To put it bluntly: fuck that bitch. She's not worth your time. Play the same game as her, see what happens. See her in the hall? Give her a dirty look and walk away. If shes gonna keep acting like that, no sense in trying for the unatainable. You're young and got plenty of time to find the right one, keep looking dude, you deserve better than that psycho, immature little bitch.
Well my experience with an special girl.. I used to be like "omfg she's so cute" all the time, thinking about her and all, and she knew... However, when I gave up and stopped looking at her, she started looking at me. weird no?
Someone is making excuses...
think you got it wrong 271. the girl who is acting like a psycho is a friend of the girl he actually likes. hey orz i dont think leaving her alone to forgot about you is the right idea. hang out with your buddies who know her that will get you introduced more often.
Orz you gotta do something that makes you stand out from the others. Buying chocolate from her will make you just another customer. You need to figure out what quality you have that makes you stand out. Maybe now it is no so polished but you can work on it a bit until it is shining so bright that she can't help but notice you. So work on find that special thing you have and then start to worry about her.
>> Buying chocolate from her will make you just another customer.
Ever heard of getting your money's worth? Three bucks is pinch if orz can use it to make an opening with her. By buying the chocolate he can get her to;
You also gotta make sure that you're not pressuring her to talk to you just because you bought her chocolate. This is really irritating for the girl (kinda like buying her an expensive dinner, expecting her to sex it up afterwards). You'll know if you're doing this if she tries to flick you away (which is probably too late, but at least you'll know that she's not interested).
>>276
How will buying chocolate from her make him any different from the other people she sold it to? By your logic, when I go to a store and say 'Hi, how are you?' to the cashier with a gallon of milk in my hand does she realize that I am interested in her? Fuck no! I means I want to buy some milk so I can eat some cookies and I have to pay her for it.
Unless he can make himself different(in a positive light) from the other students he is just some other guy she passes on her way to class. And making himself stand out will take some time. So, again Orz, work on yourself first and then work on asking her out.
>>278
I don't think you got the point of my post.
I shall reiterate:
Ever heard of getting your money's worth? Ie: Take Advantage Of The Situation.
Hey, if you fancied a store clerk the most logical approach would be to buy something (no, not a fuckin gallon of it), thereby giving you an OPPORTUNITY to talk to her. Same thing in this situation here.
>>How will buying chocolate from her make him any different from the other people she sold it to?
I didn't say it was going to. Buying the chocolate is just a PRETENSE to making small talk with her, and then getting to know her better. What makes him different to everyone else who bought chocolate depends on him, and his guts.
The "making himself different" that you mention is a long term thing, it just doesn't happen over night. People don't wait around while you change. Plus you're just telling him to change himself for the sake of a girl.
And even in the possibility that orz changes himself. He comes back a few months or a year later, he would STILL have to create an opportunity to talk to her (whether it be her selling chocolates or being in the same advanced class).
I dont really know what is the right way guys. I just wanted to buy chocolates because I had no real other way of getting her attention.
This might be giving too much away about me, but my former homeroom teacher, who happened to the choir teacher passed away. So alot of kids in the school it was heartbreaking.. school was never the same. Because I had that teacher for a few subjects I couldnt help but feel depressed for so long. I wouldnt go to the arcade.. I wouldnt download anything off the internment. I'd sneak out at night and walk trhough the park till morning when I had school. I remember that day she died we had a rememberance in the chapel and those who knew that teacher were allowed to stay in the chapel as long as they wanted and class wasnt mandatory. As I went there I saw the girl that I liked. Unlike the other 100 girls in that chapel she wasnt crying alot. But instead wiping a single tear off her face. I thought to myself why? How can she be so brave now. Whenever I felt like crying in that chapel I would look at her, and I always wondered how? After the first week so many students would gather in my homeroom (choir room) to reminesce about our teacher who has passed. One day at lunch I went in with my science text to study in the choir room, and there she was with guitar in hand the girl I liked. I didnt think anything of it at first, but as I reviewed, her sweet voice filled the air. She played the guitar flawlessly unlike most of my friends who fidget and fumble while trying to play their favorite rock song. For a whole forty-five minutes I listened to her play that sweet song. After I failed my science test, not only because I didnt study, but my answer sheet was practically blank.. I couldnt think of anything else besides her. My friend says ooooh you barely know her but you like her, maybe you shouldnt jump to conclusions... but this is the first time I have ever felt something like this.
Ive gone sooooo long with out a chick my dong has rusted to my right leg.
>>282
you should get that checked
could be a std
I am taking guitar lessons and I have no idea what im doing. I had a guitar at home so every saturday I have to study guitar. I hope this really works because the only guitar I know is guitar freaks at the arcade. Can anybody help me?
Oh yeah I also found out I might be in this girls art class next semester, so I cut my hair because my parents said is was being unkept. But now its too short looks kind of weird? Anyways I hope shes not a master painter because then I will ahve some talent to show.
Im a freak. Why bother? Just talked to a friend from her school. He says that everyone pretty much from his old junior high thinks im weird. That probably means her as well. Why did I bother? I have classes with these fucking people why do I bother to make a good impression. I know you guys havent posted here in a long time because I can tell you think im a freak right? Well your not alone on that one. Why do I even bother trying to have a good reputation.
fuck you're verbose.
>>Why do I even bother trying to have a good reputation.
Uh. Howabout NOT for the sake of a girl?
Look, If others call you freak, you aren't necessary one. But if you call yourself a freak, you'll eventually become one. At least for now you HAVE a reputation instead of being invisible, if you can make that positive, then you win.
We lost because we told ourselves we lost
-Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
worst valentines day ever fuck!!
>>293
maybe not the worst but quite bad indeed.
Wouldn't it have been totally rad if you had a girlfriend who on valentines day went like: Well, I won't buy you some shitty present but tell you what; you can do whatever you like with me for the remainder of the day.
I'd fucking do.... THINGS. A lot of THINGS. sigh
God, I'm depressed because it's valentines day.
And I haven't even cared about valentines day since 8th grade.
I had a great day today even though I had no valentine!
We lost because we told ourselves we lost
-Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
That helps. Cant stop now. I've gone through school with people hating me before. I cant give up with what I have. But what now?
>>299
Here's how it goes:
-Time allocation: HER < GRADES
-Higher grades = Advanced class
-Advanced class = OPPORTUNITY DINGDINGDING
-GIRL ACCEPTS = WIN. GIRL REJECTS = WIN.
ie: Stop spending so much time thinking about her and maybe you'll get the grades you need to not only make ground with her, but with other girls too.