Like, I feel strongly for her.
She blows me away.
But Im a street thug (crippin) and shes a nice girl. I breakdance and fight, she plays softball. The only thing we have in common is the fact that we are both intelligent. I have her in the Leadership Center, which is an accelerated program for my school. I have her for 3 classes, she sits next to me in 2, I have her on my bus (when shes not practicing for softball) and she eats lunch when I do. Im not entirely sure how to handle things. I have a reputation to uphold (ie. if Im acting romantic, then I will probably get excommunicated by my friends.) and I cant all of a sudden spend time with her. I did buy her a valentines gift though, but I dont know if I can just give it to her.
What should I do? comments would be amazing.
Thanks in advance.
Stop being a street thug and go for the girl.
Only way to leave the crips is in a box.
And I like breathing.
If your thug life and your precious reputation matter more, then give up on her and stay with your "friends". Note that true friends don't murder you for choosing to switch affiliations or changing your lifestyle.
Real thugs dont have a computer. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch and ask otaku for girl advice. Therefore, yourn not thuggin, and thus just ask the girl out
my reputation doesnt mean shit to me, but I dont plan on being percieved as weak.
And I have true friends, but most of the people I hang out with would kill me for thinking about leaving.
There are a few that would miss me, but support me no matter what (true friends.)
but, criticizing not helpful, can you give suggestions?
Real thugs dont have a computer. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch. Real thugs dont come to 4-ch and ask otaku for girl advice. Therefore, yourn not thuggin, and thus just ask the girl out
Mmhhh... OK. Ill let you believe whatever you want about thugs/street criminals.
Whats Otaku?
How do I ask girls out then?
Im not romantic at all.
(although I did buy her a box of chocalates for valentines day. But I would rather be castrated then embarass myself by giving them to her.)
nigga you aint thug.
stop pretendin to be thug. be you then it will work out. if your ass keeps up with this wanksta ass fantasy, you will get shot for no reason and be broken hearted at the same time.
Mmhh..
First Im not a "nigga" or a "nigger" or a "nicca" or any other interpretation of the word. Im Italian, and proud of it.
Second, you dont know me, and you never will.
third, I have been shot at. Twice. one grazed my shoulder, the other missed.
Fourth, Fuck what youve heard.
Are you sure you'd want to involve a girl like her with people like the people you hang out with? (let's assume you're 'better' than them, given you come for advice and stuff)
This is the first question you should answer if you plan to have any relationship with her.
anyone screws with her and Ill get them at the knees, problem solved.
It's not a question of screwing with her, rather than a question of her being involved in the social environment you live in.
Also, are you sure she wouldn't try to, somehow, make you quit? Wouldn't that be a problem to you?
Have you seen Lord of war?
It would be one of those kinds of things.
Behind da back.
Socially, she doesnt even know my friends.
No I haven't seen that movie. Shame on me.
Don't you think that if you end up in a relationship with her she will get to know your "friends"?
No, because she will only know who I introduce her to or I talk about. ie. not many people.
By the way- which movie should I ask her to go to-
step up 2 or maybe definantly?
Both look good, but for different reasons.
A relationship without communication or trust isn't much of one. You can hide your style of life for a while, but you can't hide it forever. From what you've said so far, it's pretty obvious it's a part of who you are, and if you don't open up to her, there's not much of a relationship to speak about in the first place.
You and your brand of machismo is better off dead or behind bars.
Drop the act and straighten up before even considering a relationship.
Im not going to die or get arrested (ok... maybe)
"my brand of machismo"
Whatever you say.
The only real solution to your problem is to extract yourself from the gang life,... You wouldn't be the first, and you won't be the last. You say you are smart, then you can figure a safe way of doing it, start working on that.
Of course, this means giving up on some things of your present life, you can't have it both ways. But if your current lifestyle is so twisted that you can't even go out with the girl you fancy, looks like it's not worth keeping it.
>>19
That's what I was trying to tell him, but I think he doesn't understand that... or doesn't want to understand it.
>my reputation doesnt mean shit to me, but I dont plan on being percieved as weak.
So standing up for yourself and saying "I like this girl" is being weak? Or is being weak worrying about what your 'friends' will think of the girl you like so much that you can't ask her out.
ITT WE BE THUGGIN CRIPZ 4 LIFE.
Your opinion means nothing to me.
Disregard that, i suck cocks.
>>23
Then don't ask for it. Goodbye.
If you're not strong enough to leave a street gang, you are weak.
>>27 So weak that he got his ass handed to him and now he's trying to act tough guy on an online board!
???... and you would know something like that how?
And by the way, the fact that your ID is HEAVEN on all of your posts shows you as a schizophrenic split personality kind of person.
>>29 lol ID:HEAVEN means that they're saging this retarded thread. they might be one person, they might not. shit im not God
whats saging?
I really think you need to leave if you're not a troll, and even if you are.
Give up on her.
She will find out about your thug life eventually, and if you've tried to keep it secret from her she'll drop you right there.
Damn...
Case closed move on.
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(submitted by Gloria in NY whose mother was scammed out of $560)
>>35
maybe your mother shouldn't be such an idiot next time Gloria.
at least your mother isnt as dumb as the guido op.
Real thugs don't go to school.
Real thugs dont admit to being real thugs
Globalization/stereotyping does nothing but give you an incorrect way to view the world. So, like I said... Whatever you say.
ITT idiots who confuse globalisation with generalisation.
yo, i know who you is PG queen, and we is comin to bust yo sissy ass.
OK...
whats my name?
and what school do I go to?
And come bust my "sissy" ass.
I tell you what, if you approach me at school, I wont even pull my tool out my bag.
>>43
Keep that gangsta crap out of here, please. Duh.
Crippin? da PG king, bring your wop ass to my hood and we'll see how Crip you are.
And I'm not a thug for the record, just Irish.
You got hash?
If so, where you live?
OP claims that he's a crippin street thug and he's intelligent lol
How fucking desperate are you to lurk and ask for advices on 4-ch?
> I tell you what, if you approach me at school, I wont even pull my tool out my bag.
Could've sworn you were gay. Oh well.
OP is either a troll, or not that intelligent as he claims.
>>29
shizophrenic != split personality
split personality == Dissociative identity disorder (DID)
I'm not reading anything except the OP post.
OP. Fuck your friends, if they can't accept who you are, they obviously aren't really friends, just people you hang around with.
If you're willing to not introduce her to people because of the world it could get her involved in/you're afraid of getting caught, then don't even approach her. You need to respect Her enough to give your situation to her straight. None of this "behind the back" BS.
And, of course, your enemies could find out about her and use it to their advantage.
Grow up.
He needs to respect himself enough to stop living in a fantasy world where he's a gangbanging badass that sits around high school hustling in honors class. CRIP FO LIFE NIGGA. Saying that on an anonymous message board makes you sound like a retard. Way to rep your set homeslice.
Your not crippin if your posting on here geek.
you need to tell her how you feel, and give her the gift! Forget your friends, don't they ever fall in love with anyone? if they really care about you they won't kick you out because you like a girl that is a little different than you. and whoever said that you couldn't be crippen and be intelligent, screw them. in our advanced classes, it is made of the most popular, rap loving people. not the people you would expect. so just tell your friends that you like this girl, or not, you could date her exclusivly, if that is ok with her.don't bother with everyone else, make yourself happy.
thats a first, a "crip" postin on 4-ch. have gangsters finally caught on to technology!? the world as we know it is doomed... -_-
have you guys ever heard of the Freedom Writers?
you could give him advice instead of criticizing him.
Some advice: gb2/gangsta/
>>1
my first piece of advice would have to be to read a book
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMqR8-rn_yQ&watch_response
hello, don't you think he does?
Itt: tough guys on the internet.
Advice: ask her out.
Also, as my 4chan roots demand. SAGE THIS SHIT.
I have her with mustard.
She blows me away.
But Im a street thug (crippin)
and she's dis nice girl called May.
I breakdance and fight,
but she plays softball,
We can't make it happen right?
We both intelligent fool.
I have her in the Leadership Center,
an accelerated program for my school.
I have her for 3 classes, she sits next to me in 2.
I have her on my bus,
and she eats lunch when I do.
Dawg, I have a reputation to uphold
So I can't have her right now,
Else I break da mould.
What should I do?
Drop the crippin and da pimpin,
Just so I can have her as my boo.
mmmm ...mustard
man fuck u daw get outta my hood i kick ur ass for hash