Dang! I wanted the 1000th! haha
>>150 I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. Almost three.
The only reason my feelings come back for him is when I see him somewhere. Like a Highschool party my friends planned.
*we're in college
Three years is along time with this guy to still have feelings for an ex. Interesting.
indeed.. Bu I bet you have the same feelings for your boyfrinde too, right >>151?
If I can add a suggestion, however pathetic, As long as you dont constantly think about him every waking minute it should be fine, no?
L&R.
I entered a band.
I wonder, will I become popular? Will I succeed?
Perhaps one day, I will find the one. On the stage.
tl;dr/decode: I entered a band. I feel good.
Too bad I feel that our band will fail hardcore. But if we get on the stage one day, then I will scream SUCCESS and my quest for loves will finally get a jumpstart. Get its engine going.
So lonely. OTL
I've been so horny recently.
There have been times (like right now) where I can't even focus on getting homework done, because I'm thinking SEX SEX SEX SEX.
However, I'm a virgen, single, and won't have sex with just any one. Porn and masturbation is useless, as my body seems to be craving real physical contact. This sucks. I mean, I've always heard how guys are horny all the time but have never really felt that way myself until now.
I'm 21, by the way.
>There have been times (like right now) where I can't even focus on getting homework done, because I'm thinking SEX SEX SEX SEX.
Funny story...
I was and currently am studying in the library for finals that start in like 7 hours. And about 45 minutes ago 4 dudes and 2 girls start running around the library naked for the 'Midnight Study Break.' One girl had nice titties too. But it wasn't really sexy, just plain hilarious. One of the girls got tackled by one of the security guards and flew like 20 feet, but she was able to get away. One dude got caught though.
Hi, I'm 24 and I'm currently working part time in a grocery store, while attending classes. I'm single, obviously duh and I have a question to ask. I'm very shy, skinny, and pretty much look like a huge geek. The area that I am currently living in consist of mostly 72% white and 26% black... the rest are other. My question is, while working at the store, ocassionaly I find very cute girls shopping groceries, being really shy I don't know how I am able to strike up a conversation or approach her.. how would I even know if she's taken or not.
Don't let your boss see you trying to pick up girls while working.
>>163, If you don't like your body, change it. The few first months of weight lifting make a huge difference, it'll slow down then, but you'll definitely feel more confident about your looks pretty fast.
If you're working in a store then the hard bit is already over, the girl has come to you, and is forced to interact with you somehow. Don't worry about them being taken or not, they aren't going to start hitting you because you hit on them when they've got a boyfriend..
Now for the actual conversation bit...I'd suggest smiling mostly, wait for a smile back, then..."Nice weather, don't you think?"
Nah, not really, anyone got any ideas....?
I tried to fuck a fat ugly girl, but didn't even feel anything while fucking. He went limp and refused to work.
She wasn't all that ugly and fat, but I still didn't feel anything while doing it. I don't even know why I did it, she didn't even turn me on.
This was my first time. A pretty scarring trauma.
>>166
That's why you can't settle for less than love. Stand up for your honor!
So who else is going to be alone for the holidays? orz
>>169
same here. At least it's more than some have.
raises hand I'll be without my family too, but only partly by choice. My aunt's kicking me out of the house from the 25th to the 29th because her son is coming in and he wouldn't have a place to stay otherwise. I guess it's only fair, but that's still 3 nights I'll have to spend somewhere else (probably on the street, to be honest).
But back on topic, I'm single and will continue to be for the forseeable future. The only two girls I had a chance with both hated me (or at least one of them does, apparently the other girl doesn't as of last night.. confusing -_-)
Hello there internet people
Quick question fer the masses.
First of all, i have horrible luck with gals and such, I'm quite shy and what not.
Now i got a new job a month ago, and soon after i started a gal started and we quickly hit it off. Im very quiet with people i dont know so i found it suprising how close we had gotten in two days. Now what got me wondering about things is that she always brings up the subject of me having a girlfriend, which i have yet to have (see shy and quiet) and why i dont have one. She is very touchy-feely and always a few inches away from me. My (overly gossipy) coworkers even thought we were goin out.
Now i suck at deciphering the gal codes (and spelling) so i cant tell if she flirty or just really nice. ALSO she has a boyfriend.
I'm moving across the country in a about a week and a half, and this weekend will most likely be the last time i see her for maybe ever with my sucky luck, so i just wonder what do you people think of the whole situation.
and yes of course, i am single in case you didnt notice.
>>174 If you're never moving back it's probably a pointless thing to chase after...
>>174 thing is she wanted to find out if you're single or not that is why she's probing too much of you having a gf in a subtle way. but she has a bf and you're going a way so there isn't much left to hope for. better move along.
yea i figured so, I was just being curious. She did make work alot better though. nod
As soon as I was able to condition myself that I don't need a girlfriend, my friend mentions that a girlfriend will be my only savior for school. I have stressed out lately and I have no way to get rid of it. Since I don't drink or do drugs, he said that the only thing I can do is to get a girlfriend. HE said a girlfriend will just help relax me by having someone to talk to, hang out with, etc. I don't want to believe him, but deep down inside the tiny ember of hope just started a new fire. Ah fuck, months of work down the drain.
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hey everyone;
I'm new to the website, but I have been single for two to three years now. I tried to look for love, but all the girls i know only say that they want to be friends. Man, this sucks. I get the feeling that people only see me as a friend and I may never have a girlfriend again.
Hi, i have been single most of my life and my problem is I get too bored of the girls I have had a defined relationship with. I am great with close friends and have been in love once (it was unrequited) but i just can't seem to get a good relationship cause I can never get the girl I want
The only girl I had lasted less than 4 months, I found her on a website for social phobics and she's even more desperate than me. I wish I could have a normal life with a normal woman like everyone else.
Mr warez otoko dude! do you really think anyone on this site has a "normal life" NAAA! but a pointer for you. start talkig to girls about everything and just be nice to everyone you meet, who know maybe they have a hot sister on a girl friends that you could meet :)
I feel both lucky and unlucky at the same time. I'm a girl who would probably opt for a hikkimori lifestyle if I could, though I can't possibly afford that lifestyle. I have a few friends, one very good one that I love very much and some others. Most of my so-called friends drive me nuts, and my best friend, well, I talk to her through the internet mostly anyway. I've had three boyfriends in the past, though each had their own problems and had unique problems with me, so each parted with me for different reasons.
The thought that I'll never be successful in life keeps crossing my head. I know it's shallow of me, but as a kid I was hoping my parents would get me an arranged marriage to someone rich and then I'd never have to worry about anything. I do want to find my own success sometimes, but then other times I wonder what the point of it will be. You live and then you die; only a handful of people really make a tangible mark on the world, consider how many human beings have lived and died in all eternity. Would having someone to really love ever fill up that void of never being able to really leave a mark? What if the world ends all of a sudden? Wouldn't it be nice to have a story to tell before you die?
You are not alone, I am am the same type of girl.
As a child I also hoped my parents would arrange a marriage for me to someone rich. My cousin's Mother did just that for her, now she is set for life. I have always been jealous of that, her only worry in life is if the house is clean for her husband but she has two live-in housekeepers for that. Over the summer she came to America to visit us and her life sounded so perfect. She does not have to worry about having a successful life since she was married off to a successful man.
le sigh If only...
>>186
But... is she happy? I mean, romanticly and all. It's one thing to be set in the money department and all, but to me it doesn't seem like much if one isn't happy romanticly with their partner, too. I'm just curious. ^^;
>>187 Actually, she does seem pretty happy. She just gave birth to their third child and she seems very pleased with the life that he has provided for her. He is a very kind man and is very attentive to her needs.
Of course no all arranged marriages are like this, but this is one experience.
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Yeah, my own parents were arranged, and it kinda flopped. Still, my mom's very intelligent and I trust her judgement, so an arranged marriage really wouldn't bother me at all since my parents are picking. Really, it's your parents that make the difference when it comes to arranged marriages.
I guess it's just wanting the easy road...ah, but as long as you're successful and able to support yourself somehow, I suppose it's alright to be single. It's just lonely.:(
20 years old and 20 years with out a girl.... talk about depressin _|¯|O still guess thats the same with most of the people here
The world's not all that bad, life can still be fun. Find something that you enjoy doing, and do it. Life is hard, but if you just give up, you'll lose everything that you could ever make out of your life and just throw away the luck that you were given a life.
So I bumped into an albino girl (Or she bumped into me from the behind) whom I rarely see outside the summer vacation.
It felt odd, because the air seems to be real tense around her.
I think if I once again see her, I will try to do something.
That is all.
Posted this on an other thread. No replies, thought I'll try here.
Once I get to know a guy a little more I end up liking them (initially I'd never found them attractive). All of a sudden it develops into a small physical attraction and I start noticing little traits about them. I'm a pretty shy girl when it comes to revealing my feelings, and I don't flirt as such, so I'm not just horny or whatever. Usually this attraction doesn't end up anywhere, cos I'm pretty good at burying my feelings. It's just that it's happened so many times with almost every guy friend I have.
Is this normal? Do other people get physically attracted as easily as I do?
I understand exactly what most of the people in this thread are going through. I thought I would never have a girlfriend and die cold and alone. But somehow when I turned 20 my love life blossomed, though it was painful. First girl I ever dated was a high school girl who didn't want to commit (I'm in college), that ended quick. Second was a college chick whom I met at a Dance Dance Revolution club on campus, she's psycho and dumped me 2 months later. My third (and thankfully final) relationship happened a few months ago, she and I are unofficialy engaged and are set to get married after college. Its not everyday a girl tells you "I want to have your baby", I can tell you its a special feeling that I believe each and every one of you will feel if you try harder.
I'm not bragging, I'm just proving a point that I've been there, done that, and lived on, and so can you. My advice: be more social. Its how you meet people. If a girl shows some interest, be confident and kinda halfway show interest in her, make fun of her, tease her, yet be nice and complimentary when it counts. It will come naturally, I found that out the hard way.
And above all, the worst mistake you guys can make : letting your depression rule your life. If you dont' improve your attitudes (this is a general rule, I'm not pointing fingers), you'll come off as whiney and undsesirable. For the men, women crave confidence more than anything, if you're complaining all the time or appologizing all the time like I used to, you wont' come off as such and most women will reject you. For the women, guys like attention more than anything else too. If you have any interest in a guy, ask him out instead, turn the tables on him, I seriously doubt he'll say no. And to both groups: If you can't love yourself, you can't love anybody. Keep that in mind. Don't focus on the negative so much. Focus on self improvement and being confident in what you do, you'll catch the eye of your special some one someday. I always believed that would happen and it ended up happening to me, theres absolutely no reason why it shouldn't happen to you.
Flame me if you wish, but thats what I have to say about things. Good luck everyone! Keep trying!
but the funny thing is you can find genius scientists who were really depressed for entire life
now i came to realized that is not necessarilly bad for scientists at leat
>And above all, the worst mistake you guys can make : letting your depression rule your life.
This is possibly the best advice posted in this thread yet, and everyone here should listen to it. Unfortunately, this includes myself. My biggest problem is my almost complete lack of self-esteem. I do not have a positive view of my physical self (despite the fact that I've been told by many girls that there's no reason for this), and a very low opinion of my mental self as well (dumb, no skills, etc).
But I realize that this is going to have to change. For example, I'm trying (however slowly) to get into shape. I'm somewhat overweight now, however not morbidly obese by any means. The next step after that is start doing something useful with my life (I am currently NEET.) That's probably going to be "get back into school", but I'm not sure.
After that, I hope things just happen naturally.
I'm not single guys, I love Ayanami Rei with all my heart.... I love you Rei... I always will... Rei I'm so sorry I went with a real girl for 3 months .. but now I'm so happy I'm with you again... I'll never leave you anymore Rei I love you with all my heart :**
well i was once like this, people see me as a wild happy-go-lucky funny girl but i easily break inside. i also dont let people see through me. maybe i'm shy, i dunno
nyway, that's the same for me too, i thought at first I was just so desperate in having someone to hold me in their arms that I feel this way, or maybe I was. after I accidentally found out that one of my guy friends likes me but just too scared to tell me because he thinks I'll dump him, not only that guy friend, many others too, magic that they get the same impression i'll dump em all. AFTER that everything abt my feeling for every boy went poof
If you don't like the world you are in and not liking your existence. I doubt there is anything you could do but end your existence. You could suffer, be unhappy and live alone for the rest of life to old age.
I believe there's nothing one could do if you think like that.
i don't think that is true mon, if one hates the world he can still live in his own fantasies, which i don't mean masturbating all day, i mean anime, manga, v.games, bookz and stuff. in tihs world one has to earn a living, but the rest is optional remember that mon.. u can do whatever the fuck u want and tell others to go and fuck their mutters if they don't like u
i've been a geek all my life and i loved my geeky life as much as i hated the stupid ppl of the 'normal' world
liek Ayanami, she doesn't exist in reality but she's in my heart, my heart is a temple where Ayanami resides, with Lacus Clyne, Nausicaa and all the others, and i love them all and they love me.
so taht's why i thnink one should'nt kill oneself, when all else is went to fuck, heterh's still oru inner world which can save us from damnation
i love you rei..
I had the first date of my life before last christmas. I want to tell about it now. It was very nice, yes. Was it love that peeked down from the sky on us? What a precious time it was to share these lovely hours with my date. I may finally have an inkling about what those silly romance movies want to depict. I am thankful. For the rest of the day I could hardly think about anything else, my first date. I didn't wave goodbye on the train platform. stupid.
On the plane that night, nearing my home on the other side of the world, all those wonderful impressions were still celebrating together. We shall meet again. I sometimes wonder what my feelings are, if they are love. We did get closer, that's for sure. We each found that we enjoyed our time together, did we not? If only we would have had more time together to explore what could have been. I remain uncertain about us. Still I am happy for the time we had.
And I miss you...
waah!!! what am writing! silly, silly, frigid onanoko silly to put this on web!! But its true.
Frigid onanoko warn all you! this no request for advice, this rant. Have own ideas how to deal with. wishing all happy new year!
saying goodbye now.... goodbye.
~silly ~silly ~oooh, how silly....
Damn Frigid Onanoke, you have been giving such good advice in a very unique style, I am shocked you went on your girst date recently. But congrats man. I wish the best for you.
>>202 shit mon, distance relationship sucks hard...
My only gf was 500 km away from where I live (~300 miles?), every sunday morning I would take the train.... I was spending one quarter of my salary in fucking trains..
But shit mon... I can't imagine how u can hold a relationship if u live in another continent, to me it sounds fucking crazy mon!_!
Maybe if ur rly in love, i dunno, i wasn't rly in love with mine, she had far too many personal issues for me to handle, always depressed and shit.. and the money expense was too high anyway for me to keep at it indefinitely.
I don't know mon.. don't have too many hopes on this.-.
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>>172
Why don't you fuck her? Not everything has to be a full-blown relationship to be enjoyable.In fact, if you start having lots of casual sex you'll find its a lot easier to get a girlfriend because you won't be so needy, and you'll end up with a girlfriend you are actually attracted to
>>17
some guys take every girl and u have none left. But its not because they are more handsome than u. its because they know how to treat girls better(nothing to do with money u have either, usually)
who fuck knows if she is flirty or just really nice. u just go for sex. succeed or not succeed is not a big issue here. itll be a good experience for the future anyway.
>>210 ok. now can you please leave this board, woman?
>>211
if u dont wanna see me, maybe u can leave here. bye
>>212 if every one does as you say then the only person remaining would be you.
GTFO already
I need some advice.
I don't have the best luck with girls. I've asked a few girls out before. The first 2 just wanted to be friends, I think I may hvae even scared the 2nd one off.
The 3rd girl I asked ended up having a boyfriend.
I just want to know. How can I tell if a girl is interested and not just being nice?
Also, what's the best way to approach a girl? I've heard that guys should try to be friends first. Does this mean just getting to know them better?
Ask out 50 girls. At least one might agree, and by the time you get done, you'll probably figure out what they like and gain the confidence to do anything.
Oh, but don't let them find out about it. You don't want a reputation.
Le sigh.
A girl asked me, whom I barely know, but I saw a glimpse of her and she was quite pretty and was like DO I LIKE HER on MSN and I was like YOU'RE QUITE AWWRIGHT.
I fucked it up again.
I should've said yes.
Fuck.
Don't regret you past decisions. You had reasons for doing so, and those reasons probably still hold true.
>>217
Well, I realized that I said that she looks quite all right at a glimpse. Because that's the most I have seen her :P
But what the butt, why am I even thinking so much about it.
>I said that she looks quite all right at a glimpse. Because that's the most I have seen her
lol
u should have said something SHE wanted to hear. ...well, forget about the woman, its too late.
Dude, this single thing is nice. I can drink as much as I want without people badmouthing me.
Frigid onanoko hate so say, hate to ask, but think need some advice.
Wrote before about a date, the date was great but fate then parted us to end what Frigid Onanoko commence to lament. (>>202) Still, we have chat. Gonna call date Wong, it random chinese surname.
Lately, Wong talk about song on chat for while. Frigid Onanoko supposed to listen to it. But not done until today. Then hit like frying pan, perhaps - no probably - Wong use lyrics to tell something? It no necessary tell what song (is secret, heehee!), but give hope to FO, it beautiful, it also have these lines:
"Angels have no thought of ever returning you
Would they be angry if I thought of joining you?"
Now inspiration hit FO, gonna also suggest title. Of course there plenty lovesongs, but that not do. Yes, good date, yes it click - yet, just one day; separated by at least half year until next chance. Keep real, stay careful, be cool. That what need to be now.
Here is problem: Need song to suggest. Gonna confine choice. It preferably indirect about love. It not about conquering heavens (at least not before tomorrow). You know, careful, at least show understood Wongs message, and positive about.
Looking forward to reactions! bye now.
something by the beatles?
thanks >>222 FO like beatles too. Probably gonna suggest 'stairway to heaven' Led Zeppelin.
The real problem now is that we have never discussed our date yet or how we feel about each other even though I want to hear so dearly from Wong what the feelings are between us. Our date got locked out from conversation as if it never even happened. Talking about mere trivialities instead of this just hurts. Yesterday I realized that keeping silent on this matter was grossly unfair to the both of us and would put significant strain on our relation. We had come so close in such a short time, but as amazing as it was to me and hopefully Wong as well, I felt our hearts hiding from each other. Keeping silent about this was going to become a big wedge. It is unjust to let this go on.
So I wrote Wong a letter yesterday spending 3 hours one page, writing my soul out for the benefit of... what? What can I say about a person when we've met only for such a short period? (I'd invited Wong for coffee on campus before, it wasn't really just one day) If I am going to say the love word, can I even justify it? Isn't it really stupid to have such dreams in the first place when we're living so far from each other? And then, I don't even know if Wong reciprocates my feelings. Those were my fears, and the reason why conversation with Wong was difficult and stressing.
However, I believe that Wong deserves to know me. I may have gone a bit over the top in my letter but I tried to ensure that, whatever happens, we will have open, honest communication - or nothing. I anxiously await Wongs response.
FO, out. bye.
>>216
I thought you were a girl.
>>223
Lmao stairway to heaven ;)
How about "Your body's a Wonderland" -John Mayer
I have a chance at earning a full time job in the near future. Maybe then I won't feel so embarassed to talk about myself and open up to other people. Namely females. ;_;
stairway to heaven no good?
sometimes it's just hard to open up around anyone. I've always found it hard to open up, no matter the sex of the person I was talking with.
>>228
Except when posting on an anonymous forum, eh?
But yeah, I'm like that too. Oddly enough, the person I can talk to the most is probably my younger sister.
>>229
oh online I can talk to anyone haha, I've always had so many internet friends ever since I've had internet. It's so much easier to say things when its just words on a screen then when its with your voice.
>>230
I hear you there.
how about stevie wonder's 'knocks me off my feet'
but picking a song is nothing compared to what you are facing. feel. i wish you luck with your letter, i really can't give advice except about music.
Talking, talking, Frigid Onanoko talking again, to whom? not care! even nobody listen, FO rejoice in letter responded to today. Wong feel magic too (and oh, FO, your letter sooooo beautifuul!! -> me swoon on tummy through room/)
Trying regain consciousness as walk with head in clouds.
Oh Wong,
I could sit for days under the withered tree at the sea,
tea to the side,
mesmerizing about you.
You fade away as time goes by
It fades, but not what I know,
your presence is so wonderful.
uhh... as saying, trying to regain consciousness. wish luck, people please! bye.
see I thought I was over this girl and I am more or less. I'm fine when i'm awake but she's always in my dreams. She's be in 6 or 7 out of every 10 dream I have for the past month.
>>234
Maybe that girl still has the hearts for you and she's hinting it in your dreams
>>227
Lol nah, just that it reminded me of a joke. Something about ladders and stockings :P
Goodluck with your er....whirlwind romance ey..
Valentines Day is coming up and it will be so sad. In High school without a gf. Will life ever get better....
hopefully. but you gotta remember, getting a gf and love isn't all there is to life! there are other things too!
>>234
I know that too. And that's almost five years afterwards.
I really like this girl, because she is kind, talented, intelligient. In my high school im an underclassman and im only in the normal classes while she is in the advanced classes, student council, and choir. I've talked to her many times, and she barely seems to notice me. Last time we were together she did laugh at my joke but im pretty sure she only likes smart guys. My new buddies are her friends, but im very sure they would mock me, if I told them I like her.
"Last time we were together she did laugh at my joke..."
She laughed...you got a chance buddy!
I dont think so I mean my grades are probably crap compared to hers. Also I forgot to mention that a while ago I asked this girl out on a date. Anyways before I could go on my first date in high school, a few misunderstandings occurred and now that girl thinks Im a pervert. That girl who I asked out is in the same group of friends as the girl I like. Also the joke I told was lame, and me and her where kind of forced to be together. I did tell one of my buddies though, and I hope hes going to keep it a secret. Anyways he said that the choir is selling Hershey's chocolates to raise funds for a school trip, and I was thinking of buying some from her? Should I, I mean would it help?
I dont think so I mean my grades are probably crap compared to hers. Also I forgot to mention that a while ago I asked this girl out on a date. Anyways before I could go on my first date in high school, a few misunderstandings occurred and now that girl thinks Im a pervert. That girl who I asked out is in the same group of friends as the girl I like. Also the joke I told was lame, and me and her where kind of forced to be together. I did tell one of my buddies though, and I hope hes going to keep it a secret. Anyways he said that the choir is selling Hershey's chocolates to raise funds for a school trip, and I was thinking of buying some from her? Should I, I mean would it help?
(p.s the girl I asked out and rejected from is not the girl I like, but a friend of hers)
>>I was thinking of buying some from her? Should I, I mean would it help?
Duh, that's a given. It'll let you chat to her for a while (pretend you don't know what she's fundraising for..etcetc). And it'll show her you're not a stingy bastard.
Okay but she dosent have an e-mail.. actually I heard she only uses a computer for school. But I assume I could still get more talking time with her?
I guess im spending $ 3.00 today at school. Thanks alot. What else could I do?
ask her out for coffee
Right like its that easy.