Dang! I wanted the 1000th! haha
Yea personally I think you need to worry about that other girl spreading rumors because that will ruin your reputation with the girl you like. Unless it already has. Ways to reverse that? I think your in a dilemna there.
>Last time we were together she did laugh at my joke but im pretty sure she only likes smart guys.
>I dont think so I mean my grades are probably crap compared to hers.
Don't worry about those things. They're irrelevant when it comes to love (that sounded kinda corny..).
I think its very relavent. I dont know what your backround is but when I grew up my parents always had a "criteria" for the type of girl I should be interested in. If that girl is steeped in similair traditions I think you should greatly consider that. Dont change who you are because of who you like, instead improve yourself right?
I think its relevant. I dont know what your backround is but when I was younger my parents always had a "criteria" for the kind of girl I should like (i.e. good grades, respectable family.. etc.). If that girl you like is steeped in those ways then I think you should consider it. Dont change yourself for someone you like but improve right?
My parents too, but if you really like someone, would you blow them off just because they had bad grades?
Okay just got back from school. I didnt buy any chocolates because most of the day I was hiding.. however at the last period I saw her in the hallway when I went to the bathroom. I looked like an idiot. She was just walking and all I did was stare.
Remember that hiding is not always the best solution my friend, I do have some experience with girls, sometimes you think you're just a "nuisance", but it's not always like that.
But I wonder what I'm talking about.. The girl I used to like.. well I was all shy about her, she was like from another world, she didn't like anything I liked and viseversa... however, I was just in love with the way she was, I managed to confess my feelings to her, she didn't say a word about it for some time, till I gave up and she confessed to me.. but it was too late already. ( that happened 1 week ago ).
Just talk to her. That's all I can say.
"Verse beats Face"
Haha. I really like this guys story. Can I make a seperate thread?
Oh well too late.
I dont want a thread. I think the stalker thing could go away.. but about not worrying about that girls grades or I guess differences I can accept. I just brought that up because I think she minds those things. Well Im only guessing. After my staring contest challenge should I still buy chocolates?
Also last semester I happened to see her during one of my religion classes. Everyone went to go get their textbooks, and I happened to be the first people back in the class room. I looked out the door and she was at her locker puting some books in her backpack. A few other classmates came back and started talking so I poked my head out of the door, and said "hey *******" as I waved my hand. She didnt even turn around. -.-
To tell you the truth.. Girls are something complicated, at least for us(guys). You can't really know what she's thinking. Maybe she didn't turn around because she does feel something?
Why don't you try to get closer to her? I mean, help her with something she can't do.
Maybe that'll do the trick.
about the chocolates, you should buy them, however you need to really think out what to write on the card.
I would give her a rose.
>To tell you the truth.. Girls are something complicated, at least for us(guys). You can't really know what she's thinking. Maybe she didn't turn around because she does feel something?
Do you actually want to know what they are thinking? Remember girls never know what they want.
I like the idea of getting closer, except reverse. You said she is in advance classes, ask her to tutor you.
And what misunderstanding happened with the girl you asked out? If it is something not that bad it can easily be fixed.
Thanks alot guys. About the chocolates I was thinking of buying them from her because they are for funding a school choir trip. Also I am not really friends with her that I can ask her to tutor me, and it wouldnt make sense because most of my friends are in advanced classes. If you wondering about what happened between me and her friend was that a few months ago we had a winter ball. So I actually danced and had fun with a few girls (they didnt know me.. I have a big school) so this one girl was looking at me kinda funny. So when I sat down this one girls friend told me I should ask her out. Being the clueless person I am I thought she liked me so I asked her out. I think she said yes at the dance only to make me feel happy there, but was planning to break it off I guess after. At school I asked for her number, email, from my friend. I talked to her and she told me to stop calling her, and after got mad at my friend for giving her number away. After she told everyone I was obsessed with her. Recently I saw her again walking down the stairs.. and when I saw her I couldnt help but smile and be nice. She took it wrongly and now every time shes in the hallway with one of her friends she grabs their hands and runs away making look like im a stalker. Yeah I did have fun with her and I felt pressured to ask her out. But I only felt compelled to do it because I havent hung out with just a girl for a while so I thought experience is good. But honestly the time at that dance I was always glancing over to the girl I like know.. the one with the hershey chocolates.
*now (last line). Because the girl that I like is pretty much in all advanced classes, should I ask my friend in those classes to help me meet her so I can buy some chocolates. Or does that seem like a bad request? He is busy all the time, and I am afraid to go up to her by myself.
Well no shit she thinks you are a stalker. You called her and you never asked HER for her number. Just play it off, the girl is a bit crazy.
For your girl, do you know her well enough if you are walking by her in the hallway you can have a nice casual conversation?
I dont think so. I mean we have met a few times, but mostly because of my friend or some school activity. Every time I try to initiate conversation something goes wrong like that one time, by the hallway. Now when I encounter her its mostly when im with friends or if shes with her friends. I could maybe get some more courage when we are alone but I am afraid of the same thing happening that she ignores me as if I dont exist.. or as if she forgot who I am.
Thats why I hope that if my friend can help arrange for me to buy some chocolates maybe she will think about me and not shrug me off as some other guy. If only I could do alot more with buying chocolates like pull my grades up, join clubs, councils, play 5 instruments and sing. But for now thats all I've got, and I really need help.
someone is making excuses.. just go for it
To put it bluntly: fuck that bitch. She's not worth your time. Play the same game as her, see what happens. See her in the hall? Give her a dirty look and walk away. If shes gonna keep acting like that, no sense in trying for the unatainable. You're young and got plenty of time to find the right one, keep looking dude, you deserve better than that psycho, immature little bitch.
Well my experience with an special girl.. I used to be like "omfg she's so cute" all the time, thinking about her and all, and she knew... However, when I gave up and stopped looking at her, she started looking at me. weird no?
Someone is making excuses...
think you got it wrong 271. the girl who is acting like a psycho is a friend of the girl he actually likes. hey orz i dont think leaving her alone to forgot about you is the right idea. hang out with your buddies who know her that will get you introduced more often.
Orz you gotta do something that makes you stand out from the others. Buying chocolate from her will make you just another customer. You need to figure out what quality you have that makes you stand out. Maybe now it is no so polished but you can work on it a bit until it is shining so bright that she can't help but notice you. So work on find that special thing you have and then start to worry about her.
>> Buying chocolate from her will make you just another customer.
Ever heard of getting your money's worth? Three bucks is pinch if orz can use it to make an opening with her. By buying the chocolate he can get her to;
You also gotta make sure that you're not pressuring her to talk to you just because you bought her chocolate. This is really irritating for the girl (kinda like buying her an expensive dinner, expecting her to sex it up afterwards). You'll know if you're doing this if she tries to flick you away (which is probably too late, but at least you'll know that she's not interested).
>>276
How will buying chocolate from her make him any different from the other people she sold it to? By your logic, when I go to a store and say 'Hi, how are you?' to the cashier with a gallon of milk in my hand does she realize that I am interested in her? Fuck no! I means I want to buy some milk so I can eat some cookies and I have to pay her for it.
Unless he can make himself different(in a positive light) from the other students he is just some other guy she passes on her way to class. And making himself stand out will take some time. So, again Orz, work on yourself first and then work on asking her out.
>>278
I don't think you got the point of my post.
I shall reiterate:
Ever heard of getting your money's worth? Ie: Take Advantage Of The Situation.
Hey, if you fancied a store clerk the most logical approach would be to buy something (no, not a fuckin gallon of it), thereby giving you an OPPORTUNITY to talk to her. Same thing in this situation here.
>>How will buying chocolate from her make him any different from the other people she sold it to?
I didn't say it was going to. Buying the chocolate is just a PRETENSE to making small talk with her, and then getting to know her better. What makes him different to everyone else who bought chocolate depends on him, and his guts.
The "making himself different" that you mention is a long term thing, it just doesn't happen over night. People don't wait around while you change. Plus you're just telling him to change himself for the sake of a girl.
And even in the possibility that orz changes himself. He comes back a few months or a year later, he would STILL have to create an opportunity to talk to her (whether it be her selling chocolates or being in the same advanced class).
I dont really know what is the right way guys. I just wanted to buy chocolates because I had no real other way of getting her attention.
This might be giving too much away about me, but my former homeroom teacher, who happened to the choir teacher passed away. So alot of kids in the school it was heartbreaking.. school was never the same. Because I had that teacher for a few subjects I couldnt help but feel depressed for so long. I wouldnt go to the arcade.. I wouldnt download anything off the internment. I'd sneak out at night and walk trhough the park till morning when I had school. I remember that day she died we had a rememberance in the chapel and those who knew that teacher were allowed to stay in the chapel as long as they wanted and class wasnt mandatory. As I went there I saw the girl that I liked. Unlike the other 100 girls in that chapel she wasnt crying alot. But instead wiping a single tear off her face. I thought to myself why? How can she be so brave now. Whenever I felt like crying in that chapel I would look at her, and I always wondered how? After the first week so many students would gather in my homeroom (choir room) to reminesce about our teacher who has passed. One day at lunch I went in with my science text to study in the choir room, and there she was with guitar in hand the girl I liked. I didnt think anything of it at first, but as I reviewed, her sweet voice filled the air. She played the guitar flawlessly unlike most of my friends who fidget and fumble while trying to play their favorite rock song. For a whole forty-five minutes I listened to her play that sweet song. After I failed my science test, not only because I didnt study, but my answer sheet was practically blank.. I couldnt think of anything else besides her. My friend says ooooh you barely know her but you like her, maybe you shouldnt jump to conclusions... but this is the first time I have ever felt something like this.
Ive gone sooooo long with out a chick my dong has rusted to my right leg.
>>282
you should get that checked
could be a std
I am taking guitar lessons and I have no idea what im doing. I had a guitar at home so every saturday I have to study guitar. I hope this really works because the only guitar I know is guitar freaks at the arcade. Can anybody help me?
Oh yeah I also found out I might be in this girls art class next semester, so I cut my hair because my parents said is was being unkept. But now its too short looks kind of weird? Anyways I hope shes not a master painter because then I will ahve some talent to show.
Im a freak. Why bother? Just talked to a friend from her school. He says that everyone pretty much from his old junior high thinks im weird. That probably means her as well. Why did I bother? I have classes with these fucking people why do I bother to make a good impression. I know you guys havent posted here in a long time because I can tell you think im a freak right? Well your not alone on that one. Why do I even bother trying to have a good reputation.
fuck you're verbose.
>>Why do I even bother trying to have a good reputation.
Uh. Howabout NOT for the sake of a girl?
Look, If others call you freak, you aren't necessary one. But if you call yourself a freak, you'll eventually become one. At least for now you HAVE a reputation instead of being invisible, if you can make that positive, then you win.
We lost because we told ourselves we lost
-Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
worst valentines day ever fuck!!
>>293
maybe not the worst but quite bad indeed.
Wouldn't it have been totally rad if you had a girlfriend who on valentines day went like: Well, I won't buy you some shitty present but tell you what; you can do whatever you like with me for the remainder of the day.
I'd fucking do.... THINGS. A lot of THINGS. sigh
God, I'm depressed because it's valentines day.
And I haven't even cared about valentines day since 8th grade.
I had a great day today even though I had no valentine!
We lost because we told ourselves we lost
-Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
That helps. Cant stop now. I've gone through school with people hating me before. I cant give up with what I have. But what now?
>>299
Here's how it goes:
-Time allocation: HER < GRADES
-Higher grades = Advanced class
-Advanced class = OPPORTUNITY DINGDINGDING
-GIRL ACCEPTS = WIN. GIRL REJECTS = WIN.
ie: Stop spending so much time thinking about her and maybe you'll get the grades you need to not only make ground with her, but with other girls too.
Yes! We're nearly a third of the way through making this thread as legendary as the last one. Keep posting, fellow singles. Let the internets feel our pain!
http://pbfcomics.com/?cid=PBF210-Wishing_Well.gif#200
thought the board could use a good chuckle.
There's this girl....
Actually, she's a friend of mine and taken, by my other friend and they are really happy together, but this is my dilemma: for one thing, I can't help having feelings for her even though I only want to be her friend. And it's this thought that is just driving me nuts. Plus, I know if I let anything happen between us (which would require her leaving her bf), her ex, my CLOSE friend would feel betrayed and this could even ruin my relationship with the girl if it ended wrong. Also, meeting her and being her friend actually brought me out of a depression (lonliness?), but now has me in another one (her).
AAAGGGHHHHHHH!
sorry, I just wanted to vent for so long and if you have any comments I guess I would consider hearing them.
Stop obssessing over her, find yourself another target for your affections. You can just drop it, it's all in your head. You've made her awesome in your mind but she isn't all that great. Don't let emotions play you. Even if she is fucking wonderwoman, affection and feelings without love is worthless and fades quickly. A relationship brought about from emotions that betrays love will never last. Accept in your heart that you will never have this girl, even if your friend and she breaks up. You will never have her, not even in your mind. Do you understand?
yeah, but that's the thing, i'm havin trouble even finding another person that i can have a crush on. And i don't even want to feel this way about her. But who knows, probably actually writing that on this board will help me get over her, i mean i never let out that thought. I mean, i want to get over her, but without just asking some other girl out to compensate.
uhhh...am i hopeless?
Tell your friend you have a stupid crush on his girlfriend and can't do shit about it because you're such a woman, that will be so awkward it will definately kill it.
If you cannot rule your mind by the force of will alone, give yourself a push in the back by taking action.
Then, when you've rediscovered your manhood, go find yourself a woman.
Alright, I get it, but I don't need to find another woman in order to get over her.
No, but you might want a woman regardless.
>>308
I've never wanted any other woman, ever, and I never will.
So instead I'm resuming homosexuality, since it's all I can, and even then I only use it to get me to my ideal goal of asexuality.
lol, it's you.
"I'm resuming homosexuality" Haha, ohboy. You are fucking extreme, how about you realize that there are and will be others. Don't be so dramatic, it's mostly about our own oppinions. I'm still crazy about a girl I will never have. Not because she was ever that awesome or that we shared much, I just got obsessed about her, and it still sticks. Sometimes I'm struck by this overwhelming feeling of longing for her, even if she is long gone out of my life. It's all in my mind, and I obviously like it to be there. Eventually though I know someone else will come along and I will forget.
>>309
lol, ic wut u did thar.
If only all men had the same sense of honour...perhaps the world would be a better place.
hello I posted in this thread a few times, and I was just wondering about something. School for me is starting tommorow, after a short holiday, and there is this girl I really like. She is really talented especially in music, so two weeks ago I started taking guitar lessons every saturday. Tommorow I will tell her when she is in the music room for help in guitar. Hope this is good idea?
>it's you.
Me huh? Whats my name then? You know me so well, talk to me about it directly to me.
>there are and will be others.
Are? Care to try and prove that?
Will? Don't you try and will your socialist bullshit on me, my will is more powerful so it really is useless to waste the effort trying. Will be others? Not if I have anything to say or do about it.
>>311
Not sure what it is you've seen in my text, I'd just like to make sure you're not assuming anything here. Perhaps it would be nicer if more guys were gay, then less of them would have girlfriends.
WTH.. I have been reading your posts and I am pretty sure I know who you are dont come to the music room today.
orzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz iz back
wow, is this thread mostly guys?? really dont wanna read through all of it to figure out myself :/
>>314
I don't go to any public education ministry building, ever.
I recognize you from this channel dude, not outside it. Chill, you haven't been found out.
>>Will? Don't you try and will your socialist bullshit on me, my will is more powerful so it really is useless to waste the effort trying.
Yeah I know it's because of your mind and as long as you don't change it you will not see and be able to embrace the others. Really, why would you stick to one person who isn't much better than all the others and will never be yours, thanks only to your mind being forced in that direction by your own will?
Have you no power over your will? Why stick with something when it only limits you to no good purpose? It's just fucking retarded. Are you trying to be a romantic or something?
>I recognize you from this channel dude
You have a case of mistaken identity then.
>Yeah I know it's because of your mind and as long as you don't change it you will not see and be able to embrace the others.
And that's precisely why I'll never change it, ever heard of defensive precautions?
>Really, why would you stick to one person who isn't much better than all the others and will never be yours
Oh you know this person? Oh you know all the others? Oh of course, you even know me, you're the best and I take your conclusions with extensive consideration. FUCK the others, there are no others, nothing but ghosts, why would I want to be with someone who is just going to die anyways? Its like necrophilia and as hot as that is, its not something I'd ever actually do, just consider for masturbational purposes, the same as all things until I rid myself of my sexuality.
>thanks only to your mind being forced in that direction by your own will?
Yeah its only my mind that has put me in the situation I'd planned for, not as if its the environment around me had anything to do with it, not as if I could ever count on it to be predictable and easily manipulated to my will, of course not. And even if I were to subscribe my will to the other team, it doesn't change a lick of shit besides make for some amusement in text form, but I can do better everywhere else.
>Have you no power over your will?
ahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahahahah wow, just wow, try to even understand what will is before even talking to me again ok
>Why stick with something when it only limits you to no good purpose?
Solitude isn't a good purpose? You're a fuckup, your opinions degrade into the bottom ranks of my considerations the more you even type. And as if sticking with it is something I can change, do you even know how powerful my will for that is? There is no way it could ever be surmounted by any amount of people across all of time all the way to eventuality. Do what I have, accept that it shall never change, nary that, embrace THAT because I'd rather perform that action on the fruits of my labors than some shitty person who I'll never care about and who interrupts my personal time.
>It's just fucking retarded.
Says the guy who doesn't understand that there is no desire, no action, not even any thinking within an individual without will and that will is the single driving force behind anything, let alone anything related to the individual (provided they're an individual and not a groupie). Fucking fool, WILL IS THE VERY SOURCE OF CONTROL OF ANYTHING, WITHOUT THE WILL TO CONTROL THERE IS NOTHING TO MAKE CONTROL HAPPEN.
>Are you trying to be a romantic or something?
Yes, with myself, because I'm the only one who'll ever subscribe to my brand of it, and fuck all if I ever get stupid enough to do such things with anyone. You want to talk about losing will and self control, that situation is what I would classify as the classic case of that.
>>319 so, are you trying to become asexual, or embrace solitude?
I am thinking about the same thing, well just becoming asexual but enjoying a normal life otherwise, but I think the key is to stop masturbating/looking at porn, which is hard (><);;
How important is procreation from an evolutionary standpoint anyway, right? But to achieve a truly unconscious asexuality, I need to consciously avoid sexual activity, i think.
If you want to be asexual, just cut off your balls.
Tall and lanky with tight faded jeans and dirty fake converse and a faded black t-shirt with a barely visible graphic design and the pink dye in her hair is fading pretty golden brown eyes LOOK AT ME please you want me YOU LIAR type of girl. ROck and drrawgs. I say do you notice any difference? its a bluray disc yaknow? I don't notice any difference. Me neither K bye. K.
forever.
>so, are you trying to become asexual, or embrace solitude?
I already embrace solitdue and have since, lets see...DAY ONE, what I'm trying to do is achieve asexuality. Which is of course only a matter of time, but soonest is best.
>How important is procreation from an evolutionary standpoint anyway
Less important than you would think, in fact at this point it is highly detrimental, but of course no one will buy that despite downs, harlequin fetuses and the general populace getting dumber and dumber, and whole fuckton of other issues, ahh humanity.
>If you want to be asexual, just cut off your balls.
If I believed in self mutilation then I would have by now, I'm going to do this by willpower alone, I have enough to spare.
>>322
yeah, uhmm, talking to myself here but total fucking coincidence reallyseriously has nothing whatsoever to do with you know, speaking of my friends nextdoor neighbor but still ur hot too really all to my fucking self here
Konbanwa mina-san. This is my first time coming here. I heard about 4-ch thanks to my love of the Densha Otoko story. When I saw this thread I knew I had to join in.
I am not, however, thinking that something could happen to me like what happened to Densha through this thread. I just thought it would be great to join in the conversation.
>>ahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahahahah wow, just wow, try to even understand what will is before even talking to me again ok
Yes I see you have not discovered the fine art of twisting your own mind. Not that it makes you very different from most people, it's only unfortunate that your circumstances
would hopelessly turn you into such an odd fella'.
But you seem to be happy with your situation so really why should I care? For your own good perhaps, so here's a protip for you son:
Will and control as you mention is emptyness, without a force to drive them, will is betrayed and control is lost. How often do we not act opposite to our will, we do not say what we wished we said or do what we wanted to do, often we actually do and say what we do NOT want to do or say.
What we want is equal to will, what we do is equal to our emotions. As long as our emotional currents are quenched, we can, more or less, live as we will. But once our emotions burst out due to lack of stimulation, we lose control, and find that we have no power over our lives.
What you are doing, motherfucker, is backing away from all situations that stir emotions within us, so you don't have to worry about losing control over your odd mind. You set up in your private environment, a haven for drenching the violent flames within you, to the best of your abilities. And this keeps you content to a level that you can go through life without snapping.
for now
But mark my words, you WILL snap. It's just a matter of time because in your mind you're already broken. I can see it in your words, you are the kind of person who snaps. Your thinking is not natural, it will not sustain you because our emotions will always be and require what is natural. Your hypocracy bullshit will break you to shit, how the fuck can you bring yourself to imagine anything else?
Hey I am @ school now and I just found out something. I think that my buddie whos in the same class as her likes her now. I overheard a conversation he had with one of his friends and he didnt seem to notice me. I know that if he asks her out he will never tell me, and he likes to keep me in the dark when convienient enough. Whjat do I do?
uh lol
>>328 challenge him to a dance-off
>try to even understand what will is before even talking to me again ok
sorry for my intrusion, i'm just new here
i just wish things would be better for me
right now its really early in the morning and I am writing a paper for a friend so his friend a girl who I like will notice meh good right?
>>337
What no? Girls don't generally dig pushovers. Unless she's into SM and that shit.
wth is SM?
Man, you are WEAK. First of all, why are you letting a 'friend' use you like that. If he was a friend he would introduce you to her without any hesistation, even he was interested in her (he would have probably let his motivates known though). But nope, he is like a pimp that you have a pay so he can see one of his hoes. He took advantage of your desperation. So tell your friend to fuck off and write his own paper while you spend your own time talking to that girl of yours.
Yeah you are right he probably dosent even regard him as a friend and is only nice to you so you can do his homework. Fuhhgetaboutit. LOL I guess he already wrote it goodluck xD
Okay yeah I did it. I saw on my friends contact list this girls name that I like. I was thinking maybe I can make a shell e-mail and send a love letter. I know what to say, but should I do it now or later like in the summer? Also I dont know if anyone here read my old posts but I asked out a friend of hers last year in December. What should I say about that if I send the love letter?
you don't say anything about it until she asks you, if she asks about it, then be glad!
Yo! Just curious... do you guys ever think about going to those date sites? Because man I really want a girlfriend lol. And im too lazy/ not confident/ and not social enough to get a girl... So yea neone have experience with date sites?
Better to go out your front door. It just takes a few steps, step out in the real world and hunt girls. ;)
>>346
Take this advice if you want to fail and waste your time, also follow this advice if you want to be miserable, have a fucked up day.
